what do i do?

Question

ok this is the thing i met this guy he worked next to me i really liked him so we stared talking and stuff then he ask me out and i said yes. things weren't ok he mistread me alot then he left to mexico i called him all the time but then i called him and he did't answer it was like that for 2 weeks i gave up and did't call him a gain then i heard he had come back my friend convinse me to see him so i did we talked and straight things out but thing still weren't ok cuz he still mistread me when i called him he would tell me he was too tired so call him some other time. after a year pass he chage because i started mis treaing him he chage alot he loved me but i wasen't tyring to get hurt twice by the same guy then i found out that when we stared going out he only wanted to play with me because a woman broke his heart so he dosen't trust any woman he keeps me on check all the time he checks my cell. and if don't want to have sex he says am cheating on him am tired of this but we haveababy

Answer 1

Sounds pretty fishy to me. A BABY is NO reason to stay together, in fact, it can cause more harm than good to that babies future and stability in life. It's a proven fact that a young girl who sees her mother being mistreated will 9 times out of 10 think this is normal and attract the same kind of relationships because this is all she knows. Very rarely does this not happen.

As for the gentleman, he may have been hurt severely but that is no reason to treat a lady with such disrespect. If he doesn't trust you now, most likely never will unless you have a heart to heart and the thing of no sex (your cheating on me) is a cop out to get laid. Feel sorry for me and let me manipulate you cause I know you love me enough to give me what I want so I won't go anywhere.

Girl, you need to find a man who will love you as you are and that baby too. If this guy left to Mexico for a year, then that's not much of a father figure is it? Get yourself in the mode of finding a real man and one who will accept you for you and that baby as his own. Good luck and happy futures to you and that innocent baby.

Answer 2

ok so he treated you like crap why did you still date him hunny he knows you will be there when he calls he doesnt have to work for you so stop being so avialable and tell him that if he doesnt trust you after allt his time he needs to and that he cant try and control you stend up for yourself girl get a back bone

Answer 3

Leave him. Not just for you, but for the baby's sake as well. If he mistreats you now, it will only get worse and he will do the same to your child.

Answer 4

wHAT A LOSER! Move on please....