For a guy who is a liar, is it someting that will never change ?
2007-03-15 07:21:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
REALLY, though? If a guy is a liar once, he will always be??
He used to lie ALL the time, and I would catch him doing it! Now, he SWEARS he doesn't any more! ...Is he just a BETTER liar now??
2007-03-15 07:27:08 · update #1
People hardly change. They have to want this really want it and it's difficult. Wouldn't it be difficult to you , to change the way you bahave? Anyway if he is determined he could change. We all should give people a second chance.
2007-03-15 07:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people lie to some extent, whether it's white lies or outright selfish lies.
Do all guys maliciously lie? Of course not...that's too big of a blanket statement to make about billions of people. However those people that do lie, tend to lie to all kinds of people in their lives...it's rare that they lie only to specific people.
Can liars change? Yes...but they have to want to and they have to come to feel that lying isn't the way to get what they want or get out of situations...that the truth is the way to go...some people will never feel that way and will often lie to avoid punishment or repercussions of their unkewl actions.
2007-03-15 14:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I humbly suggest that it's not a guy thing. If he lies to you, and you catch him in it, rather than stew about it, ask why? Most likely, it's because he's afraid of something (cough, commitment, cough). If it's for something else, he's just an idiot. I try to be as open (almost embarrassingly so) with my love as possible, and I just have to trust that she is with me. If you can't trust him, be done with him.
On a side note, women do lie. I'm not saying you personally do, but you know women who do. It does go both ways.
2007-03-15 14:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nathan C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone lies - everyday, all the time...it's not a question about whether they do or don't - it's a question of what the lie entails and why he feels compelled to lie.
Not everyone hides deep rooted secrets, or cheats, or has affairs - if that's what you're getting at........try to have an open mind, and one day maybe you'll find Mr. Honesty
But would you really like it if Mr. Honesty told you he thought you wear getting fat? - cause that what I mean when I say everyone lies, and their not all bad :)
2007-03-15 14:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a liar always a liar
2007-03-15 14:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people lie in a relationship to help the person feel more at ease about somthing they would like to keep to themselves. In turn they dont feel as guilty about it or telling the lie, EVERYONE, does this, you have done it, I have done it, EVERYONE has, its a part of life and its just not somthing to waste time worrying about it. if he or she doesn't want to tell you somthing then respect that. don't treat them like a piece of dirt for somthing you are guilty of as well.
2007-03-15 14:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your answer is generalised and narrow minded. Not ALL men lie.
For example, ALL men (approx 3.5 billion) arn't in a relationship so can't lie to their girlfriends or they may even "bat for the other team" so to speak.
Thank you and goodnight.
2007-03-15 14:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES! this is completly true, guys like that will never change, there plenty of good ones out there dont waste your time with a lier
2007-03-15 14:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not all do. I might be blunt or a tad insensitive at times, but there's no need to lie.
As for changing, highly unlikely.
2007-03-15 14:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by splendorsolis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if that guy is willing to change, but i guess its too difficult for a guy to change especially, if he really doesn't want to...
2007-03-15 14:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋