I like dthis guy .....well i still kinda do but yeah........i asked something about him a couple of months ago..if he liked me or not.....but any ways he was cool with me he told me he liked me and that he wanted to go out with m...but a day later he told me he wanted to be friends and he started to ignore me. so i stoped talking to him. but now he wants to talk to me and he goes up to me and try to make a converstaion up. what should i do? i dont wana make him feel bad but he made me feel bad. should i ignore him or just go on with the flow? Help me
2007-03-15 06:58:24 · 6 answers · asked by liz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore him if he can hurt your feelings once he can again....Move on with your life....
2007-03-15 07:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by kows4sale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he felt bad that he told you one thing first and then changed his mind a day later, and is trying to find out if your mad at him or not. You failed to answer how old you both are, so there may be some underlying stuff that could be stifling him. I suggest you talk to him, talking never hurt anyone. Sometimes a relationship can be worked out by becoming friends first. The more you know someone, the better chance it will be that you might like him more. Or, it could turn out that he is a jerk, and you will feel good that you never dated him. Trust your heart, but also your brain. You can sense when something is not right, everyone has that common sense.
2007-03-15 14:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you???? It could be that you were too straigh forward with him and you scared him. just a piece of advice most guy likes to be challeged. They like chasing the girl not the other way around. Go out with him whats the worse that can happen?
2007-03-15 14:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you want to be friends then go ahead but dont take it further than that. It seems hes got some issues he needs to work out. If he liked you then he wouldnt have acted like that. Something ive learned in life is to dont spend time with people that dont want to spend their time with you.
2007-03-15 14:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by darealest323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way:
Why would a bee go back to the same flower, unless all the other flowers do not have nectar?
Because it's the ONLY OPTION.
I think you shouldn't allow this guy into your life because you sound like the only option, he doesn't have other g/fs to go out with.
Don't.
2007-03-15 14:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ignore him. don't listen to what guys have to say. they always do that. guys pretend that girls don't have feelings. don't listen to him. a guy did the exact same thing to me. i just ignored him and found someone else. you can do way better than him. if you need anymore advise, e-mail me at jlharris1989@yahoo.com
2007-03-15 14:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋