I have a boyfriend that lives in italy and he is what i always dreamed of. The problem is that i live in the usa i have a life here and he does too over there, the thing is we want to be together but we can not figure out what to do!
Any advice is welcome!
Thanks!
2007-03-15 06:54:00 · 8 answers · asked by only me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We been together for 2 years and talk eveyday and visit eachother every 3 months.
2007-03-15 07:02:40 · update #1
If you really want to be with him you will find a way to make it work out. Each of you will have to make sacrifices but when you love someone it all becomes worth it.
2007-03-15 07:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would suggest that for now, you try to keep the long distance relationship healthy. visit each other once in a while.... communicate a lot over the phone. if things aren't working out the greatest anymore after a while of being 'together but away' then it might not be the best thing for you.
but if you guys make it and feel strongly about each other, then one will have to make a sacrifise and move to the other's location...
good luck.
2007-03-15 06:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of you has to make the big decision...either you go live in Italy or he comes and lives in the States. Or you can go move to a country somewhere smack in the middle.
Long distance relationships are okay for awhile, but they grow old quick.
2007-03-17 05:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people can't make it in a long distance relationship, when it's a matter of a couple of hours away, let alone another continent....if there is no way for either of you to move, then maybe you should consider seeing other people....
2007-03-15 06:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by onekoolkat_31 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your BF should try a long-distance relationship. That's the same thing my friend has. She lives in Southern California and her boyfriend lives in Italy. You should really try to do long-distance. if you need anymore advise, e-mail me at jlharris1989@yahoo.com
2007-03-15 07:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am in the same situation except he is in washington and i am in california. i am not doubting your love for him because that is not my place or anyone elses but if the two of you really do love eachother where you live shouldnt matter. my guy and i are not yet in love but i have all ready made the decission that once i graduate i will go where he wants me to be if we are in love when i graduate. think about this really.
-incubusgirl09
2007-03-15 06:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by incubusgirl09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could always try a long distance relationship. I'm not promising it will work though.
2007-03-15 06:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to compromise.
one of you has to move.
2007-03-15 06:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋