you see i met this girl last year and she liked me and i liked her but she started going out with this guy. And he kept hurting her (not physically) and i was always there for her and so the last time he did it to her she dumped him. we had a new years eve party and then he left and told one of our friends he was going to kill himself and so i was relle relle mad and wanted to hurt him. u see i don't like to c my friends cry and the guy left me in a room with her balling her eyes out. i spent more time with her in a week then i had in a month after new years. we we're gonna go out and we thought it was right because her x had a new gf and we relle relle wanted to be together. we decided to wait a couple of months and so now the whole things changed because she spent some time with him and relized she has feelings for him still but she tell's me she won't go back out with him. All our friends want me and her together. what do you think i should do?
2007-03-15 06:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by bluesman50 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
friends sit by the girl holding her telling her what she wants to hear and everything would be okay
a real friend is someone who would chase him down and knock him out, someone who would take a punch or throw one just for her
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im not suggesting anything just saying
but you just needa be around her more often , make sure she's okay, be with her
and watch a movie or somethin at home with her
ask her on a date but as a friend not a boyfriend
just let her forget about things that night
trust me it'll make her feel better
tell me if u need more help
good luck man
2007-03-15 06:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you for a fool and you have taken the bait - hook, line, and sinker. Who knows how many guys she is playing - even if there is only two of you right now, she is having a blast feeding her massive ego. Even if you were to "win" her over the other guy, it would just be a matter of time and she would be playing this game again. She will never respect you because she does not respect herself. Your so called "friends" either feel "sorry" for little miss cry baby, they don't want to hurt you by telling you she's a loser, or they are oblivious to her game. It is important that you look at all sides of a situation and KNOW who you are dealing with before getting involved. Don't listen to your friends - they are not unbiased. Look at your own writing and SEE you are being played.
2007-03-15 07:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're being a great friend for your friend who you happen to have feeling for. you might wanna consider backing off a bit cause obviously she only feels for you as a friend. in order to protect yourself, you may probably draw the line and just 'be her friend' and no more. she needed you when she's in the trouble but she didn't choose you. she chose him so keep some distance and look out for other girls. good luck!
2007-03-15 06:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIVE IT A TRY! If she said she isn't going back with him then give her a reason not to. IF she doesn't have a reason not to there is twice as much a chance of her going back to him. YES she is still going to have feelings for him depending on how long they dated.
2007-03-15 06:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Gen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not sure which one of you she wants, so play the waiting game if you really want her, let her make her mind up.
2007-03-15 06:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's already too late, you're already on the friend ladder and you dont' want to be a rebound, as hard as it is try and move on
2007-03-15 06:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he does
but to make sure
make sure u swallow his load and let him know u will
it works for me
2007-03-15 06:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by jackiegirl1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋