What should do with my boyfriend who loves me but i dont' think its working out but i really care about him???

Question

We have been together for a month now. And he tells me he loves me but sometimes i cant tell. i really want to stay with him only if he gets his act togehter. I know sometime i can be a really abusive gurl and bossy but its the way i am and im not changing that for him.... He always think i don't care about him but I do cuz if i didnt i wouldnt be here right now with him. We thought about having sexual intercourse with one another but im rethinking my thoughts because I feel him like that. He is always actin shy around people like people really care what we do and how we do it. I try kissing him sometimes and he acts like he doesn't want to but when he does want to kiss me i dont want to kiss him. I dont think its fair that he gets to front like anything is crispy creme and what not. That's my dogg and im starting to love that boy . he cant get enough of me and i just want to let him go sometimes because i need my spaces for real yo.

Answer 1

You two are incompatible. Forget the feelings, you can have them for anyone. Break up now before you make the mistake of sleeping with him, which you shouldn't do before marriage anyway. After sleeping with him you will feel that much more obligated to stay with him.

Think of this as mission accomplished, after all this is the reason for dating, to find if that person is compatible with you and worthy of being your boyfriend and later husband and the father of your children. The purpose of dating is not to make the relationship work no matter what, that leads to misery.
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Answer 2

It sounds like he loves you, but you don't love him. You want someone who will give you your way all the time. Stay single and get a dog.
I don't expect you to pick this as best answer, but you really don't say anything about wanting him to be happy, just that you don't want to be alone.

Answer 3

Ok just break up with him now...basically you just want a dolly that you can make into whatever you want. Get over yourself honey and grow up...when you really care about someone you love them for who they are, not try to make them what you want to be.