My girlfriend and me just recently broke up, we went out for a year and four months, we agreed to remain good friends, but shes been weird lately...Everytime i try to talk to her she just says i dont have to talk to you and turns away. Should i show her how it feels and do it to her, and say as long as you treat me like this i will too, or what?
2007-03-15 06:38:56 · 6 answers · asked by Levi K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems from the information you have shared, she might have changed her mind on your agreement. Quite possibly (depending on the matter of the break up), she might feel you owe her more than friends or she might be acting that way to make it easier on herself. Speaking from the gut, most females listen to what other females tell them and you never know that might be the case. If you feel you should show her the same treatment (without being a total jerk about it), then see if two wrongs make a right. If not you two should really have a long deep talk. Seems like something is going on man and you need to get to the bottom of it.
2007-03-15 06:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by writethewrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't treat her the same way cuz that will only tick her off more. Just remain nice to her. Other people will see what she is doing and then she will look bad, but you on the other hand will look like you are actually trying to make the friends thing work.
2007-03-15 13:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing? I'll tell ya and so would she if she could put it into these words...you are acting like a girlie man, a wussy....dont do that...
now....
You broke up and she is showing you it's over and to move on..
she just may be your friend if you go away and give her the gift of missing you...
she most likely wont say "move on" ...
actions speak louder than words..
Move on and live a little and meet new girls and date them and all that.
There are soooo many women out there, enjoy them ..and your life...
say hi to them, tell them to go with you, not ask for their permission.... get it?
Do NOT WUSS OUT and go talk to her again unless she contacts you...
go to David DeAngelo on the web and sign up for his email newsletters... read and learn the ways of the dating gurus of the world....the masters..
2007-03-15 13:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a tool. Utilize NO CONTACT.
Goto Loveshack.com or whatever it is, and look around for no contact. You can not be friends. She is being weird to you because she has moved on and you have not.
Even if you want her back, no contact is still the best way.
Dont tell her anything, just dont contact her. She will prolly wonder why/where you are and the chase you!
2007-03-15 13:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bizpsx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you are broke up. Nobody remains good friends right away, maybe in 5 years. Move on, quit wasting your time angsting over her.
2007-03-15 13:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by mary j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you two break up? it might be the answer why she's acting strange. and if she doesn't want to talk, thats not a big deal. go your own way it seems she's already starting something new, so do the same.
2007-03-15 13:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by T-spooon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋