..without asking him. i just wanna be sure he likes me first and then i will ask him out. what can i do to find out
2007-03-15 06:38:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can probably tell by his body language and how you both interact. Are you sending him the right signals? Try to be more flirty and see is he responds differently. If he maintains eye contact and genuinely seems interested in your conversations, then he might be into you.
When you talk does he fold his arms across his chest? Some people see this as being uncomfortable. Others see it as being confident enough in yourself to pull the move off. You can also try touching his arm slightly after a good laugh. This will let him know that you want to get closer to him, but not in a creepy way.
Then again, you can't really depend on psychology to understand the signals. You can always ask him to "hangout." That way, it's not technically a date. You could say "We should hangout sometime." And if he responds positively, then there you go. Just throw that line in there when the time is right. Trust yourself. I know it'll work out.
Good luck.
2007-03-15 06:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 very easy way 2 tell if the guy is nervous around u he likes u #2 if he likes to be around u and chooses to hang with u and not his friends use ally they talk about each other from time 2 time (i do this) look at her from a long point of view and admire her sometimes u drift of into a place in your mind when u see both of u together also sometimes the guy is scared to ask so Friends pick up on this and say something like so and so likes you sometimes the girl smirks and is glad or 2 a look on her face and she thinks its gross and quickly tells her peeps mostly when a guy should ask u out is somewhere nice to fit "romantic" some don't and go for it around other people that really all i can think of
2007-03-15 13:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by jon S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this should let you know...
Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly.
Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
Joke freely. Does he laugh, even if you aren't funny?
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
See if he always end up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him.
Also study their reactions to your presence. Do they smile? Do they turn to him? If so, then there's a good chance he really does like you.
2007-03-15 13:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He knows your name and speaks to you is the first thing.
If he is willing to do something private( going out wise) then you have a chance. :)
2007-03-15 13:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Princess AJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sry but there is no way to be sure just go for it
2007-03-15 13:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he talks to you and flirts with you then chances are that he likes you
2007-03-15 13:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stick your finger in his ear, if he laughs he likes you, if he says "get away wierdo" he probably doesn't
2007-03-15 13:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋