How would you shake up your boyfriend and relationship?

Question

I believe my man is getting too comfortable and is taking me forgranted. How do I make him realize that I need attention? He is there when I need him but I don't want him to assume that I know how he feels, once in a while I need actions.

Answer 1

Communication without judgment is key to a successful relationship. You both need to work on this so maybe you can start talking to him and try to make him feel comfortable to communicate back to you. No real drama is needed here.

Guys feel if everything is fine, why rock the boat.

Answer 2

Just communicate with him. There is nothing wrong with getting comfortable w/ each other. However, doing the same old same can get boring. Find a hobby that you two can share together. Take a vacation. Try a new restaurant.

But talk to him first, tell him you are getting worried that your relationship is losing it's spice.

Answer 3

Maby your wrong. Or you should just try telling him? How much attention do you want? Sounds like you want to have a mans type role in this relationship and not the womans. You know the saying, behind every great man is a great woman?

Answer 4

This happens in most relationships. I think you should make him realize that if he doesn't do his part you'll walk away. Don't be too available and ignore him at times. Also add a little mystery to the relationship. Don't always tell him what you're doing and where u are when he calls u.

Answer 5

I did it by breaking up with him and my gf. He and my gf were heartless bastards, so I decided to leave them.

I guess that wasn't the type of shaking up you were talking about.

Answer 6

flirt with other guys in front of him...always works or you could do it the mature way and talk to him about you feel.

altho i would do the flirting way...

Answer 7

you just have to tell him straight up