Will i ever lose my virginity to my new girlfriend shemira?

Question

well we`ve been together for a while and i told her i was a virgin and she said why i told her that i just never had the chance well i did but it never happened we did other things im not scared to do it its just im scared that i wont do it right but will i lose it to her she tells me all the time that she wants to do it but she never knows when and some time now she`s been acking different not wanting to talk to me but i dont know whats wrong with her she says i be fronting but i dont recall that but i just want to know if i will lose it with her or the will i ever get the chance

Answer 1

Who cares

Answer 2

I had a similiar problem a while ago. I asked a girl I liked if she'd be willing to wait until marriage before having sex with a guy. She said she probably would, but then she started acting weird. Just like in your case. Eventully I figured out that the girl probably thought that I was telling her that I would not want to have sex before marriage.

Because that might have bothered her in some way. I think I scared away. To this day, I've wondered what would have happened if I'd never said that.

In your case, your probably dealing with a girl who has a fair amount of sexual experience. When you told her that you were a virgin, she probably felt that you and her would not be compatible because she may know a lot of thing's and you are a novice.

I would say that your relationship is probably over if she is acing funny. And I would also tell you to not sweat one bit. The main problem is that you too are on two totally different wavelengths. My advice to you is to find a girl who seems more reserved and conservative. Chances are she'll be a virgin too. If not, she'll be less likely to write you off just because you haven't gotten around to sex yet. Good luck! Be safe.

Answer 3

This girl needs to understand that ur a virgin and so what? Being a virgin doesn’t hurt a relationship until you both come to a decision that u want to do it. And in due time, u’ll know what to do. Don’t let your ‘I don’t know how’ thing get 2 u because if you do, ur going to be unsure whether to do it or not you want to. If this girl keeps pressuring you, get yourself another girl that WILL respect ur problem

Answer 4

if ur both ready than do ya thing gangsta. i mean damn make time and if its both your first time you both wont know if one is doing it different than another. plus you both dont have anythign else to compare it to. so you know what sop frontin if you are and just be starte up wit her and let her no u wnana do the dirty =) good luck and use protectionnnn there diseases out thurrr like crazyy and not only that you too young to be a daddddyyy

Answer 5

honey, it will happen when it's the right time.. don't put so much pressure on that fact. It will just happen.. so relax and just chill. Maybe, she is sleeping with someone else??? If you don't get to sleep with her, it's definitely not the end of the world... you will meet the right one.. this gf doesn't seem right for ya!

Answer 6

The choice is yours - to lose it or to keep it. Why are u in a hurry to lose this thing-it's not an achiement. Face your studies and don't join the league of losers ok.

Answer 7

Is her name Shemira? if it is i don't think you'll lost your virginity to her, you just gave her name out on the internet!! big no no.

Answer 8

First of all, sex isnt everything...if your too worried about that, then you will lose her, thats all that has to be said...

Answer 9

Nope, I popped her cherry a year ago !

Answer 10

What are you asking us for! Anyway, talk to her more about it. Don't pressure her. Be relaxed and don't pressure yourself.