are they to young or am I not shooting high enough?

Question

All the guys i've dated are...not fitting. they've been about a month to a year difference to my age (19), but they all seem to agervate me. Do I need to date older ? my sister dated a guy 10 years her elder...she's happy with to kids. Is that what i need to do?

Answer 1

Perhaps more mature is the key, whether that means the guy is older or not. Although maturity is more likely to occur with age, that isn't always the case.

Of course, you didn't say what about these guys you dated aggravated you, so the issue may not be age or maturity at all but simply not making good dating choices.

Answer 2

there's nothing wrong with dating an alder guy(i'm 36 my gf-21,we are happy) however i don't really think it'll make things better. alot of us older guys are still immature. also, with guys my age, the thing is that alot are still single because they aren't done being a dawg! some older guys out there might give you what you are looking for. but they are just as likely to "hit and bail" as a younger guy.

Answer 3

Generally it is considered that females mature faster than males, so if you dated a guy several years older than yourself he would be more age appropriate than someone who is younger. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 4

Just because it worked for your sister, doesnt mean that it will work for you. You do whatever you feel is best for you. Find someone with more or less the same maturity as you. I know that it can be hard, but youll find someone suitable for you. Just keep looking.

Answer 5

You shouldn't be dating and having relationships at 19. You should be pursuing your college degree and getting your life and ambitions all together, not worrying about boyfriends.

Answer 6

Women mature faster than men....Maybe it's a good idea.

Answer 7

yes

Answer 8

It's worth a try.