Me and my boyfriend have been dating for the last year and a half. We have always had our differences and conflicts- but I always thought it was natural. Now I'm beginning to notice how weary I am after just giving him a call. It seems like he is always having a problem with the relationship and I'm sure I complain about something or another to him also. Last night we went out on a date and I couldn't even enjoy it because he brought out all these problems. I told him it made me feel bad and he tried to cheer me up but then I got resentful for him trying to make me feel bad in the first place. I'm just saying it seems like every time someone asks me how our relationship is doing there is something I'm depressed about. I'm transferring to a different college next year so our relationship would be really spread thin anyways. It feels like I'm giving up on the relationship and I don't want to, but I don't think a relationship is about constantly arguing and not understanding each other.
2007-03-15 06:27:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really ought to break up... life is to short to be in an unhappy relationship... you owe it to yourself to be happy.
2007-03-15 06:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by ragefury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should break up. I was in that same kind of situation but for 2 1/2 yrs. It will never get better. no matter how much you love them. They will never change. Relationships are supposed to be fun and exciting not all the BS of fighting and not understanding. I'm sorry to say that you should let go as hard as it is. i did the exact same.. I moved away to another college and trust me it will never work! I feel for you. Be with someone who enjoys everything you enjoy and love. This guy is not the one for you. You will know when you have the right partner. You just know!
2007-03-15 06:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship is just going to fall apart. u 2 just need 2 come to an understanding that the realtionship is over, and has been for quite sometime. it's not fair to either of you if you try 2 keep the relationship going. obviously neither of you are happy, and i highly doubt either of you will feel hurt ending the relationship. and you don't want 2 be dating a guy at a different college. that would be to hard on both of you. i say you guys just need to officially end the relationship. best of luck.
2007-03-15 06:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by beachangel2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship sounds really toxic. It also sounds like what you really want is permission to break up with him.
You have my permission, sweetie. It sounds like an absolute nightmare, and like he's sapping your emotional energy. A good man should make you feel loved and energized, not exhausted.
2007-03-15 06:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating is supposed to be a mutual thing. If your not happy it doesn't work.
Tell him that you two need a break and should try to meet other people. That way he develop more understanding of people.
Then try asking for him back again.
2007-03-15 06:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by leafshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both of you are not meeting each other's expectations. Dating should be about discovery, not hangups. Let him go and find someone with whom you have more in common.
2007-03-15 06:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you bicker so much try puting tape on your mouth. If you do so you won't be able to talk batter yet argue!!!!
2007-03-15 06:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by nay f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋