i graduated from uni in 2003, left for three years (lived abroad mostly and at home for a bit) then moved back to my old uni town in sept 06
2007-03-15 06:10:24 · 14 answers · asked by elsie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I moved from a small town of about 300,000 to Nashville, TN seven years ago. At first I was lonely and lost all the time. Now I am preparing to return to my hometown. I own a house there and was always planning to return. But now that it is emminent I'm not sure it is what I want. I have family there and I miss being part of their lives regularly but I enjoy Nashville and am afraid I will miss it.
I think we all fear change to some degree or another. Fear of the unknown. You can always move again.
2007-03-15 06:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by alikilee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes same happened to me too. You change and the years go by but the students stay the same and you have outgrown them. You feel like you have stayed on at school too long.
Move away as you can never recapture that time in your life.
Go to another town which may be similar in character eg another uni town but you can discover it and all its attractions three years older.
I did just that. Looked at options, jobs and what is it about a place that makes me happy. I never regretted moving.
2007-03-15 10:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure this happen to many people. Having loved a place before but not any more after returning usually mean the people themselves have changed, their idea of an ideal place differs with pass of time. The places can also have changed, architecture, environment, favorite places replaced by others not so interesting maybe....
2007-03-17 03:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live abroad and many people have return to UK as they were 'homesick' for friends family etc. Then a couple of years later you see them back here. You have an image in your mind but things change.
2007-03-15 08:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by sunlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I was living abroad for awhile in Asia and I miss it now like crazy!
2007-03-15 13:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived in Portsmouth for 38 years, moved to West Yorkshire, moved back to Portsmouth, hated it, now happliy back in West Yorkshire.
2007-03-19 02:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Weed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes with the EX wife
2007-03-15 06:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by ashymojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive hated living 1 place left it moved bak n loved it
ppl change and so do places
2007-03-16 09:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't ever be the same. The place itself is not what you remember.
(lyrics from push, by the cure, sum it up pretty well)
"exactly the same clean room,
exactly the same clean bed,
but I've stayed away to long this time,
and I've got to big to fit this time ..."
2007-03-15 06:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Timothy S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋