erson # 3 and i have had our "up's and down's" we tend to argue a lot. I don't really have a problem with her i never did that is. But sometimes i feel like she is not a good friend. She gets "angry" very easily. She got angry at me because she thought Aberham Lincon was black and i said "and your going to med school?" She got angry and hit me in the face. I did not hit her back but instead walked away. She has also kicked me on numerous occasions when she's angry. She has also urniated in my shower and told me about it.When so comes over to eat she complains to my mom. My mom knows that this girl only eats chicken so my mom made her bbq chicken. She refused to eat it and made my mom cook her a seprate meal because she wouldn't eat the chicken with bbq sauce. She can give real attitudes with people and tends to bring a lot of drama to the table. She gets very angry easily and even talks to teachers with attitude. She once yelled down the hall to her math teacher "Yo smith get over here now" I know she is going through a similar situation as the one i am but i feel like i don't need someone who brings MORE drama to the table. She has trouble getting along with EVERYONE my boyfriend can't even stand her. I don't know why she's not a "bad person" just very rude at times.
2007-03-15 06:06:00 · 17 answers · asked by Julie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should i still be friends with her?
2007-03-15 06:06:13 · update #1
all your friends have some serious problems...i don't think any of them know what being a friend means at all. what kind of person, most importantly, a friend would kick their friend or hit them in the face. I mean, what you said to her wasn't really nice, but I do the same with my friends and they do it back to me when I say something stupid. We all laugh about it, not kick or hit each other because we're mad about it. She was just rude to your mom. If she didn't like the food she should have just gone home then. I would have let her starve because that's not how friends behave. She could have just said she didn't like it, but your mom went out of her way to please her and she didn't seem grateful to me. Maybe she has some anger management problems if she's yelling at everyone and gets upset easily. If I were you I'd either leave her, or try and talk to her and see why she's so mad. You need all this drama, especially in your senior year. I know that can be stressful all by itself and you don't need drama to make it worse.
2007-03-15 06:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how long you have known this person...she is not worth your time, energy or tears.
Friends are supposed to be there for eachother, be able to give eachother advice, a good shoulder to cry on, someone you can complain too and they won't take it personally.....and definitley someone you can have fun with and joke around with without getting hit in the face.
My advice to you.....ditch that psychopathic loser. Life is hard enough to deal with, let alone deal with a psycho like her. And for your mom to have to cook her a new meal?! WHAT! I would have told her to eat what was made or leave. There is no way in hell that I would let a (so-called) friend be like that with my mother.
You need to grow up and realize that you are better off without her in your life. You could be doing so much more with your time than crying and wasting your energy on that piece of trash.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 13:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Connors! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be "her acquaintance". She needs therapy! Get her to talk to the school guidance counselor. That girl will surely beat her husband & kids! If you wish to continue to be friends tell her she has to go to counseling. & let her know that if she doesn't get the emotional help that she needs, you can no longer hang out with her. She is a time bomb waiting to explode. Like the shootings at the schools...please be careful. Don't insult her. Talk to her in a very caring way. Let her know you'll help her get through all this if ONLY she goes to a therapist. Are you willing to go with her? Tell her so, if yu are. She acts out through fear. She is turning all her feelings into anger. A sure sign of depression. She needs help. But ur only a kid yourself. Tell your mom to talk to her parents. Her teacher. Let them know they're concerned for her. Good luck!
2007-03-15 13:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by HeavenlyAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears you got your push over personality from your mom. People like your friend usually hook up with people they can push around and get away with it. My advice to you would be to discontinue being her friend as she is a person who will only bring you trouble. As you said yourself, you do not need the drama. Grow a spine and don't let her or any one push you around. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-15 13:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl, is she the only friend you have? Taking this kind of abuse will eventually translate in your future married life. You have to learn how to stand-up for yourself. If you can't, then try not to be around people who abused you and walk on you like door mats. Even if she's your only friend, you are way better off alone. Cut her loose!
2007-03-15 13:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by blackjack7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like my great-grandfather.
Whenever him and my family went out to eat, he would get impatient waiting for his food and he would hit his fork against his glass and told them hurry up. Sometimes, he would even spank the waitresses to tell them to move it along.
Now you're asking should you still be friends with her. I don't really have a choice because my great-grandfather is my relative. I wouldn't because from the description you gave me, it sounds like you don't like her very much. But if there's something about her that you like (whether she's funny, kind, etc.) maybe you should give her a chance.
2007-03-15 13:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you should not be friends with her. She has serious anger management issues, and is violent and demanding. This is not healthy for you, and your continued friendship and endurance of her will not help her either. You need to break away from her to keep you safe and happy, and she needs to learn that her outrageous behavior will push people away from her.
Encourage her to seek counseling or therapy, and tell your teacher or school counselor about her actions so they can find ways to help her.
2007-03-15 13:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a "friend" upsets you more than once, then you need to leave her alone. you dont need to be stressed out or crying over someone who probably doesnt care about you. save the tears for a rainy day and just walk away from that b****h.
2007-03-15 13:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell ya..U shld still be frens wif her but also be an adviser to her. Give her a slap once or twice to make her wake up tat the world doesnt rotate ard her and tat society isnt tat nice to her of she cont. to be a B****!Sometimes we muz do wats best for them and oursleves even if it hurts em or us..its for the good of us all!
2007-03-15 13:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by aw_farid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all dunt cry second of all dunt cry third of all dunt cry cuz its not worth any of it ok jus smile i kno i once had a freind like taht but cmon think i cant belive she did that 2 ur mom that was sooo mean i mean if shes like that i really dnt think shes worth ur high soul cuz ur sooo much better then that jus smile and move on cuz if shes like taht wit otha ppl i wounda wat she is 2 u jus move on and dnt cry cuz its deffintly not worth it so smile baby
2007-03-15 13:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by idkjustanothergurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋