What's easier? Telling someone you love them, or discovering and telling someone it's over?
2007-03-15 05:58:35 · 9 answers · asked by wikkednaughtygrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems we are all very quick to tell someone we love them and it seems easy to say those three little words - the bad thing is there are so many levels of love saying it is easy and really doesn't mean much. Now, telling someone it's over is not so easy - if it were just two little words "it's over" that would be great! My point is we say "I love you" without explanation yet we can't say "it's over" without an explanation.
2007-03-15 06:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing that comes to mind is that they are equal. The emotions that go into a relationship from the beginning and the emotions that a person has coming out are just as mind boggling as the other. Do I want this? Do I need this? What did we do wrong? What will we do right? What will be me like is a couple years? You can anwers any of these questions in the beginning or the end of a relationship. I don't beleive you realize it is over until you actually tell that certain someone. That is when you get that finazlied feeling and start struggling with the big question, "Did I do what was right?". That is the big question from both ends of a relationship.
2007-03-15 06:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by mom3x4plus2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion; I think it's 50/50. You can tell someone you love them and feel wonderful about it and really care about them etc...and the on the other hand, you can find something that tells you it's over and to move on and feel great about your decison if it's something bad that you don't want to have to put up with you =)
2007-03-15 06:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its EASIER to tell someone its over...but i would rather tell someone i love them.
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2007-03-15 06:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. i say telling them it's over,the discovering part that is the wake up call the reality.
2007-03-15 06:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think telling them its over is hardest...
I called off my wedding to my oldest son's father back in 2000. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do...
2007-03-15 06:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess telling someone you love them.................its like giving a piece of your heart in hoping the same feelings return from others............and for telling its over...its like you loose feelings for others n you dont feel any pain...........
2007-03-15 06:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best, not necessarily easier.
2007-03-15 06:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 of one .... a half dozen of the other ....
2007-03-15 06:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by mnencefront 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋