I asked a question about how to deal with a situation in my life. Some of u left some helpful comments and were very supportive but some of you were rude and judgemental. I pray that none of u ever suffer from domestic abuse or have difficult pregnancies. I remarried and am being scolded for doing so. My husband who is wonderful is under attack but some fail to realize that hes a marine and cannot help when a field op comes around and he has to leave. Just remember we are here to support each other and give advice...not judge her try to hurt others feelings. God bless you ALL.
2007-03-15 05:42:43 · 14 answers · asked by marinewife 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I ran into the same thing, I am sorry that that happens. Well said!
2007-03-15 05:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by squeezy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't see your first question either. Don't let rude people get you down. They don't have a right to be judgemental, some people will use this as an anonymous place to be mean. I don't know your situation but I am sure that if you go to church or if you go to some of the military wives groups that you can get some help and a little more understanding. You seem to be a woman of faith and that will give you strength to do what is right. Good luck and again I apologize for some of the horrible remarks you obviously received.
2007-03-15 14:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by zookeeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never read your first question, but want to appoligize for anyone attacking you or the fact they were rude. You are right that we are supposed to be here for support of each other. I hope everything works out for you. God bless your husband being in the armed forces, where would we be without them. Men and women willing to risk their lives for this country and god bless you because behind every good man is a good women. I wish you luck on your future.
2007-03-15 06:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your experience; it’s not supposed to be like that. You have an earnest, hard issue while in a difficult situation. People tend to make assumptions or jump to conclusions (or not read the full question). You want to get ideas and suggestions, but should not have to put your entire life story in every question. You may want to pull the question or just not look at it any more. I all hope goes better for you in the future. My prayers are with you and your family.
2007-03-15 06:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by g-lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just on here to see how nasty they can be. I truly hoped that my suggestion helped, because after all your daughters safety is what's important, no matter where she is or who she is with! And what some said about, if she was with you it wouldn't be an issue, is NOT true because your MinL would still want to take her to the damn parade... so whatever, don't take any rude comments to heart... I have never been through abuse or marriage to a soldier but i would never degrade someone who has.. It takes alot of strength to come through both of those situations. Best to you!
2007-03-15 05:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by mom2camnchloe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi , sorry you receive some bad responses. There are some nice people who try to help. But there are many people who have gone through hurts that may be different than your hurts, and they are left bitter and want to throw darts at anyone they can.Oh, they want to get the mote out of your eye when a beam is in their own.
2007-03-15 07:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by KaeMae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you're referring to, as I didn't bother looking up your previous questions, but I'm glad you worked it out.
Just remember when you're dealing with people who lurk on the internet, you're going to encounter some real jerks who think they're being funny. It's a mass forum, so you're going to get responses from the masses.
2007-03-15 05:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by LadyJag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow some people can be rude!
people shouldn't pass judgment but when it don't when someone with different values is approached with something from a family with a differnect set of values there is always some sort of conflix.
Best wishes!
2007-03-15 05:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I never saw your first question. But yeah, you gotta have pretty thick skin a lot of times on here. Right or wrong, nice or not, people will say what they feel around here.
2007-03-15 05:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't seem to understand that what goes around comes around at some point in life!
2007-03-15 06:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by In Luv w/ 2 B, 1 G + 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree there are some people here that feel they must attack others! That is not right!
2007-03-15 05:47:30 · answer #11 · answered by ohmylanta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋