I've never been so jealous before in my life. In the past with boyfriends it never bothered me if they were friends with other women. For some reason with this one I'm completely jealous. If another woman has his attention I just want to tell her to step off. Even if she's doing nothing wrong. I'm crazy about him.
2007-03-15 05:35:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has no idea I feel like this. I pretend it doen't bother me, but it does.
2007-03-15 05:44:46 · update #1
You sound like you feel really insecure about the relationship. Do you trust him? Does he give you good reason to think he might be interested in other people? Has he cheated before - even if it was with other girls? Are you going through a tough time outside of this relationship, and are those emotions affecting how you feel with him? It's not the other girls problem. Your boyfriend is not her responsibiltiy - it's your boyfriend's job to make you feel loved and wanted and secure - and it's your job not to drive yourself and him crazy if you don't have reason to. But if your gut is telling you that you should be jealous- maybe you should pay attention to it...
2007-03-15 05:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same issue! I'm never jealous and now I'm extremely territorial when a girl even comes near my man. It sucks. The only advice i can give you is to talk about it with your boyfriend - dont be "that girl" and get bit*hy with another girl for being friendly. Usually, jealousy makes chicks more attracted to the boy - and then they just try to push your buttons. Be above them.
2007-03-15 12:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by beckyvincenzes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is part of human emotions. If you're not jealous, you're not human. It's the degree of jealousy that can be a problem. Some can be very jealous that they do irrational stuff. I think you're normal and was jealous because you're a human being. You care for your boyfriend thus you're jealous. If you dont care, then there wont be any jealousy. Just dont be too jealous that it will damaged the relationship.
2007-03-15 12:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by epicwolf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you are either in love with him that you don't want anything to bad happen or he is amazingly gorgeous and that you are afraid that he might cheat on you. Do you trust him? Just don't fall to fast, take it slow.
2007-03-15 12:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by tai&amc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question. Just remember, when love turns into possession, it is not LOVE anymore.
2007-03-15 12:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋