Do u think it is enough?
I been with my bf for about 13 month I love him so much, however we are very different ppls, I am from a very classic family and he is from very dysfunction family but I loved him his mother is on drugs his brother is in jail he been to jail for like a year way before I met him. Know he does stuff he smokes stuff, I never done none of that stuff on my life. And he said that he loves me and he want to be with me for ever, I am in school full time and I also work full time, he works part time in this department store and he goes home and sleep or do other stuff. He never cheated on me I know he loves me. but is very stubborn, guy like when I call him and ask him so how was ur day he will say why u asking me that why u want to know what I do all day he gets so mad I let a lot of thing go I try not to get mad at him at all, and if we go out to eat I end up paying all the time and if I ask him for money he talks talks about how he give me money. And I cook for him I clean his house I do every thing for him. sometimes I think that I over reacted but like for examples he didn’t call me for like a day so I called him the next day and said how are u doing I just call to say hi he said ok, nothing else I mean ok I will talk to u later u didn’t call me for like 2 days I mean what is his problem? How should I break up with I try to make this work but it is not going anywhere
2007-03-15 05:32:51 · 9 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your life will be misery if you stick with this guy. Just tell him the relationship is not working for you. He is a user in more ways than one.
2007-03-15 05:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't respect u at all. And this cud very well be that he has had no one to teach him how to respect anyone. Also sounds like ur the only one trying to make things work. Tell him u want a man to stand by ur side, not one that needs u to take care of him. And that u want a equal partner in a relationship, which he isn't being. Tell him all of these thing's u said here. Also why wud u want to be with someone who is on drugs and not even trying to better himself like u are? You deserve better someone who loves you & supports ur values & morals.........Get out Now!!
Good Luck!!!!!!
Good Luck!!!!!
2007-03-15 05:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by cindy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on this guy and let him go.You are heading nowhere fast.Sounds to me as though he has big problems and you don't need to be involved.Would you like to spend your life like this?Not even being able to ask a simple question and getting the third degree?
You are worth much more than this.Find someone who respects you and loves you.This guy is showing you absolutely no respect and without that there is no love.
First and foremost.....respect yourself and get rid of him.He's a total loser and he's using you to his advantage.
2007-03-15 05:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are taking on board here someone who has a history of drug plus abuse,Love is a strong word to use here you would be better off if you both had a break to see where you are both at & at your young age (school) I would advise you to concentrate on your career rather than your present social problem.
2007-03-15 05:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll end up a crack wife standing on street corners turning tricks in a few years if you don't get away from this guy. If he wasn't a drug user, or and alcohol drinker, i would say look pass his disfuctional family. But he does all those things.
2007-03-15 05:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answer first, and if the answering makes me think of or makes my day, then i will megastar. i be attentive to...this is picky of me, sorry. o.o yet this form I finally end up pointing my followers and contacts to the *good stuff* you be attentive to? ^__^ Or a minimum of i attempt to. yet have a megastar besides purely for being affected person and be attentive to-how. ^_^
2016-11-25 21:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just looking for the "bad boy". It is not love it is adrenaline attraction. Step back, take a few deep breaths, and run like hell.
2007-03-15 05:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him honey.. you are starting to just get "whipped" and he basically controls your life... and i'm sure you dont want that.
good luck
2007-03-15 05:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guys a druggy.
2007-03-15 05:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋