amputated. i am not sure if she's having it done from the knee downwards or the whole leg. this is the reason why me and charlotte haven't spoke for seven months. her nan has really bad arthritis in both knee's and she had an operation on both in the summer, which made shirley really ill and may have to have both legs removed eventually. charlotte has said that she loves me, but not to expect too much personal details and time from her. she's really worried about her nan. i used to work with both shirley and charlotte and both are wonderful people. how can i execpt not too many demands from charlotte and is it right for me not to demand too much from my girlfriend. how do i find the balance between letting charlotte see her gran, she see's for atleast 10 hours a week at the moment and wanting time for me and her.
what can i do
how can i get charlotte to come to me, when she needs support because she's obviously going through a trying time.
2007-03-15 05:15:31 · 1 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can be there for her.. send her nan flowers in hospital with a card, and send charlotte a card letting her know that you're there for her if she needs you.
don't put any pressure on her at the moment - as long as she knows you're out there thinking about her that's the most important thing x
2007-03-15 12:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋