My boyfriend asked me to marry him but, i am in college. this is my firt year. We have been with oneanother 3years now. i love him. but i dont know if we should get marred at this age. what do u think should i say yes and just wat a year or 2 or just get marred now?
2007-03-15 05:13:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say yes. but then just ask if he could hold of on the wedding until your ready. he will know you love him. if you are in colledge hold off on the kids. trust me you are NOT ready for that.
2007-03-15 05:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by HOTTIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really think...and not with your heart but with your head. Sometimes when we believe we are truly in love it blinds us and then when things do not work out we kick ourselves in the rear.....You are still young, in college, and I think that you have higher priorities right now than marriage and a family. Talk to your boyfriend about your feelings, if he is really in love with you he will understand, if he doesn't then concentrate on more important things and don't waste your time with somebody who does not take into consideration your professional development. HOPE this helps! Good Luck!
2007-03-15 05:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by C@nGRiL@dy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look tell him that your in college, and tell him your feelings. Tell him yes i love you, but I really think I am to young to be making such a big step. If he agrees and waits he is the real deal if he is like whatever you need to drop him like yesterday's trash because he is not worth the time.
2007-03-15 05:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the Yahoo crowd i think the answer is obvious. While it's gonna suck to hurt his feelings it's yourself that's most important. You should finish school first if that's what you wanted. And if he really love you he'll wait and then you'll know your with a great guy.
2007-03-15 05:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by tarakootenay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you would like to marry him but not now. I think its best to get married when you're 100% sure its the right thing at the right time.
2007-03-15 05:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by fanciful me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent ready let him know. Let him know you love him but dont feel like it's the right time. If he loves you, he'll stick around. Of just have a long engagement
2007-03-15 05:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by Yankees Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just besuase ur engaged doesnt mean u have to get married right now. you can say yes and plan it later. theres nothin wrong with bein engaged and in college
its ur call
2007-03-15 05:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Mommy!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..... i would tell him that you want to wait until after you finish college. you are young and have plenty of time to get married. if he loves you that much then he will be understanding and be willing to wait.
congrats though..... :)
2007-03-15 05:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by biggsclimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart, it sounds like your not ready though if your asking someone else's opinion. If it's right is right, if not it's not.
2007-03-15 05:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help? It sounds like you are asking us how to tell him no without changing anything about your relationship?
2007-03-15 05:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋