I've been with my bf for 2 months(im 20,hes24)When we first i could tell he was really into me,always wanted me around,introduced me to his family..now he seems more distant.when were together hes very affectionate and attentive,but we dont see each other as often as im used to.Me and my ex saw each other almost everyday.We do live about 30min away from each other,but he doesnt have his licence only i do, which means he doesnt even have to drive to see me. I usually see him once during the week and then we go out and party during the weekend,or we are with his parents. he lives with 2 other guys,so its hard to spend alone time with him.He tells me all the time how much he cares about me and that he has 'really strong feelings' towards me,but don't u think he would want to see me more?I am his first gf in 2 years and i know he's been badly hurt by girls b4, so do u think he's just taking it slow or that he's scared to get too attached, or is he just not that into me??
2007-03-15 05:12:53 · 5 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea just give him a little space hun, maybe he is freakin out a little, just relax and trust me he will appreciate your patience, and above all will be greatful, not all girls understand that...
2007-03-15 05:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
If he doesn't have a car it's kind of hard for him to come see you. If he doesn't hav a job, you should probably wonder why. In my opinion the fact that he lives with 2 guys and the only way he can see you is by you going there makes it difficult for him. If you are unhappy with the amount of time you spend together tell him that. He is a man and needs to step up, if he really likes you he will find a way to see you more than just once or twice a week. Especially if alot of his free time is spent at home because he can't drive
2007-03-15 12:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already said, he has no license and you live relatively far away...a 30 min drive is a 2 hour walk. Right there, it tells me that he doesn't want to be a burden on you. And he lives with two guys? They probably drink and have a lot of fun together, and sometimes boys in that situation loose control of "calender time", meaning they have no concept of what date it is. You should make it a point to see him more often, don't ask, just tell, as in "I'm coming over with dinner" or something to that effect. If he says "no, I have other plans", then you might have the answer you seek.
2007-03-15 12:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally thinks he just wants you when he needs sex. At 24, normally that is all they are thinking about. Maybe he has been with others while still with you. My best advice for you to find the answer would be to not go see him or call him, see how long it takes for him to show or calls. If he really cares, it shouldn't take long for him to at least call. If it takes more than 3 days, you should reconsider you relationship. A woman needs a man that enhances her not make her guess about stuff.
2007-03-15 12:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by phoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cares for you but maybe scared,so just give him some time.
2007-03-15 12:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋