What women think that man( mostly)think when he feels in love?
What men think that woman.......?
2007-03-15 05:11:28 · 17 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-15 05:40:15 · update #1
We idolize the person that we fall in love with. We think they make no mistakes...and dream away.....
The first mistake the human person we are in love with makes, we get all wacked out of shape.....
That is the most common thing I notice...
2007-03-23 04:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that the feeling of being in love would be pretty much the same for men and women.
As for the biggest mistake, I would say rushing. Relationships take time to develop, and sometimes people get too eager to advance the relationship to a certain point, especially if they are falling in love quickly. There are a couple of consequences to this. They miss out on some of the great things about falling in love because they're too eager to get through it to the "being in love" part. Also, some problems or negative behaviors can develop in the relationship without their noticing because they're too busy fast forwarding things. They will later notice a problem when it has gotten really bad, rather than noticing it at its start and correcting it then, which they would have been able to do if they'd taken their time.
2007-03-15 12:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by IQ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My biggest mistake with falling in love is an honest mistake. I have let myself fall way to hard for this one person, you feel like you can't live without them, they become a part of your heart, and by the time you realize it its to late and you can't fall out of love. I don't like the feeling of having to depend on that person. What if they screw up and break your heart into a million pieces. But then again love is such a wounderful thing that I hope will last forever but does anything really last forever?
2007-03-15 12:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most common mistake is that we are so infatuated in the moment we don't pay heed to people's opinions regarding warning signs they are seeing in the relationship. An outsiders perspective is so important because when you first fall in love, time seems to stand still and you're really blinded to who that person really is. You dont always pick up on little things that may be huge warning signs of a bad relationship in the making. Most important thing when falling in love is to be realistic about who that person is and keep your eyes open to red flags. And always value your family/friend's opinions on who you're dating. They're the ones who know you best!
2007-03-15 12:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have fallen too hard and smothered one person. I have distanced my slef from another so I wouldn't be hurt again. And with the one I am in now, we both smother eachother yet give eachother space. But it isn't a 50/50 relationship. We both use eachother for many different things. And that is pretty much the base of our relationship.
2007-03-23 04:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by firey_aries_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What we do that is the biggest error is lose our identity and follow behind a man like a lost desparate puppy. Sometimes we are so into them that we lose touch with who we are, what we like, what we hate, what we love, what we need (besides him) and what we are to become. The most attractive aspect of a woman to a man is someone who is interesting enough, to have a life with unique interests, and friends and dreams and goals and success outside of him.
2007-03-15 12:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by cami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first common mistake i thought of is to not see and not evaluate realisticly who the other is, although we actually have enough hints to do that. And when we at last do, to think that we will change him/her even if he/she doesn't feel the necessity to change him/herself. I believe in people getting better and more mature, but they have to want it themselves, plus they have to be brave enough. We cannot force anyone to change, we can only reflect and motivate them.
But there are many more mistakes...... To get overdepended, to be afraid to depend at all, to smother, to nurse too much, to cancel, to not claim what one needs enough, to be granted or on the other hand not to provide any security at all ...
2007-03-16 10:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first mistake what we do is hide our naturality our weakness and bad charecters...........which will become the reason for the break in relation ship when it comes visible to the lover.. be real to the person u love ...its not so easy but try it out
2007-03-23 03:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by jerk_2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.loving too much.
2.breaking rules for it.
3.wanting to expend all your time with that person.
4. Expecting not to be dessapointed.
5.Forgetting about your friends or family members.
2007-03-22 23:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgretchem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most common mistake is smothering your partner.
Then you get the chair.
2007-03-15 12:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋