ok...this boy which is my first thinks he can jus get "it" anytime..and he comes to my house anytime when he knows im home alone and trys it...im a very nice person and dont like to hurt ppl feelings but he needs to stop we been through!!what should i do?
2007-03-15 05:10:22 · 7 answers · asked by chocalate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it. For one thing, you don't want to get pregnant. For another, it's very disrespectful to your parents. Most importantly, you need to make him understand he needs to have respect for you. If he likes you for any reason other than sex, he should show it. Do not make the mistake of placing all your value in sex. I did that when I was young and it took me a long time to get over it. I now understand that I am a good person and I have a lot more to offer than sex. If you can, I would also talk to a trusted adult. (parents sometimes fit the bill.) I realize that's not likely though. Just please don't end up another pregnancy or disease statistic!
2007-03-15 05:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first was the same. I was 16 he was 17 or 18 and he would call me, I would drive to his house and we that is all we would do. After that he would say he has to go somewhere so I would go home.
I am not saying we never spent time togther where we weren't doing it but the relationship was really very boring.
I stayed with him for three years but about a year after we started together I realized this was not a good realtionship.
I just started dating other guys. Their paths never crossed cause he lived in a different town.
Sooner or later you will come to your senses and tell him to flake off. Believe me you won't be crying that this one got away.
2007-03-16 05:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds very selfish and interested only in his own needs. he does not sound like he is interested in what you want or what your wishes or needs are. Do you really want a boyfriend who is so selfish? Certainly you , or anyone else deserves better. Tell him to take a walk and find someone else more suitable to you and more respectful of you. They are out there.
2007-03-15 05:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I just act like I am asleep. LOL
2007-03-15 05:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mamie-Lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS MUST BE A YOUNG GUY....THEY ALWAYS WANT IT ALL THE TIME. JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. HOWEVER REMEMBER THAT WHAT YOU WON'T DO FOR HIM SOME OTHER GIRL WILL. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-15 05:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by tatyana17 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
best answer is to STOP GIVING IT TO HIM! You having sex with HIM has nothing to do with HIS feelings, it has to do with YOUR body. If you dont want to have sex with him, DONT!!!
2007-03-15 05:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by YouKnowImRight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be firm with him.Dont let him get his way.
2007-03-15 05:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋