I have a crush on a guy at school. I haven't spoken to him in 4 months. He's popular, but I can tell that he gets nervous when he's surrounded by people he doesn't know. I'm really shy. The last time I spoke to him, I was having a bad day and he was annoying me. He was just trying to make me laugh, but I didn't take it to well. He liked me at that point. I don't know if he does anymore though (that's why I'm asking!). We make eye contact all the time in class and I catch him looking at me. We have 2 classes together. I really like him and can't stop thinking about him. Just tell me if he likes me. Please give reasons for your answers. Please tell me how I can get him to talk to me. I'd prefer that i didn't have to start the conversation. If you think him talking to me first is not an option, please give me ideas on how I can start the conversation. This girl he used to date thinks he still likes her too. I know I asked this question, but I accidentally resolved it.Thanks!!!!
2007-03-15 05:06:11 · 9 answers · asked by 569™ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't stop thinking about him. I get butterflies in my stomach whenever I'm about to see him (right before classes). I can't get him off my mind. I really need some help with this!!! How do you talk to someone like this??? Like I say, he hasn't spoken to me in 4 months, so it would probably be wierd if I just walked up and started talking to him. I miss him when I'm not around him, and I don't get nervous when I'm near him, like if he's walking beside me. By the way, i don't think he does that on purpose, there's always someone in front of him or something that makes it so that he can't leave. I really need some advice. Please help me!!!
2007-03-18 05:15:44 · update #1
I'm an introvert if that helps anyone out with my personality. I took a quiz and every quesiton that I answered showed me as an introvert. I'm very quiet and have a hard time talking to people I don't know. I'm much better at emailing, I can check over what I've said before I say it. That should help with the answers some.
2007-03-18 06:37:15 · update #2
hey how u goin? trust me so many girls have this problem including me.. by the sounds of things i think that this guy does reli like u... if he tries 2 make u laugh when ur feeling down and u guys look each other in the eyes and then probaly smile at each other.. u dont have 2 be a genius 2 work out theres sumthing there btween u 2. the butterflies are natural and eventually they will go away bcoz u will be comfortable confronting him nd ur freindship will become closer nd closer... when u see him always try nd make convosation.. ask him hows hes goin and how his day had been.... and also once in while give him a call or send him a txt message....
anyways hope ive help
good luck xxx
2007-03-23 04:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him a question about the class and let the convo go from there. People need people to talk to and like to talk but normally both parties are scared at first to start the convo. The confidence you show in starting the convo, is also a plus. Once you say something one day at class then the next day you can start off with a hi or a how was yoru day and over a week of doing this you will both feel comfortable talking to eachother.
2007-03-15 05:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by kconleyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i have the same problem!!! i really like this guy and he is in my class to, he sits behind me!!!! your lucky u can make eye contact with each other. im shy too. Maybe just say hi or whats up? im sure he likes you, maybe you should just start a conversation, and shyness can overcome. i know you can do it, i think it would make him happy if you came up to him and said something.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 05:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by aminallover29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to get some courage and just go start a conversation with him. Ask him to do something after school with you or on the weekend. Be brave young soul.
2007-03-20 04:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Joey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you really need to make the first move. He obviously tried but unfortunately, it didnt work out. Now its your turn to try again! He tried to cheer you up, and you catch him looking at you so he definetly likes you.Let him know your interested by at least attemping to talk to him!!!
...dont let shyness hold you back. If you wait it could be too late!
2007-03-15 05:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question should be why hasnt he made an effort to talk to you!!!!!!!!!!dont make excuses for him that he is shy and dont blame yourself for being an introvert.plis!!!!!gal im sorry to tell you this but if the guy really wnted to talk to you then he would have.maybe he is also caught by other gals staring at them!my advise is that you kgo for classes that will help you become more social and focus your efforts on someone who is more interested
2007-03-23 03:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by mellow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defenitley,(hey your answer helped me allot,tnx)start the conversation with a simple hi or hello,ask how are you?when he looks at you look back and smile,be his friend,talk to him often,borrow something from him if you need something and until he says something
2007-03-16 16:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Shiro Hime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww.... you loooovvvveeeee him!!!!!! lol
2007-03-17 12:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by excess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋