what would you do ???

Question

i've been dating this man but i dont get to see/hear from him that much. he told me last week that he loved me and wanted us to move on into a relationship well i was stunned and amazed because hes wonderful BUT he doesn't know me personally ,we had only been out a few times so we didnt exactly switch alot of personal info...not even our last names.he owns his own buisness,he customizes/remodels homes thats what keeps him gone alot..and then im suppose to just trust him ; theres been days i dont even get a phone call im so confused..any advice

Answer 1

He's playin you. What the heck does move onto a relationship mean? A relationship is not something you turn on or off because you say it, it's something that grows organically. Try spending some time with him first

Answer 2

I'm not sure I'd believe that he really loves you this early in the relationship - especially since you say you don't know much about each other. With that said, get to know one another. Don't tell him you love him, if you don't or you're not sure. Just be honest with him. You don't feel you know him well enough to say that yet, but you think he's a great guy and can't wait to find out if this could turn out to be love for both of you.

Sounds like you like him - just be honest about your feelings, keep an open mind and see where it goes.

Answer 3

I'm kinda in a situation like this myself. However, I know his last name and have met his family. But with the kind of work he does and being a single parent he doesn't have much time to call,email,text or IM, but I know the situation. What kind of a relationship are you wanting?? Sometimes no communication is o.k. because when you finally get to communicate it's AWESOME!!!!

Answer 4

well he seems like a good guy and if u like him than u need to except the fact that he might be gone alot if u have a relationship. But i think he might be goin alil fast and that scars you so just tell him that u really like him and wanna keep on seein him but that u dont wanna move quiet so fast

p.s. knowin his last name is kinda one of those things that u learn right away. if i was u i would learn it soon cause for all u kno he is ur 2nd cousin.

HOPE I HELPED

Answer 5

Lets see. If you want to get know him better send each other e-mails telling how you truly are. None of that refried BS. As for trusting him, you don't know the guy so you don't know how he is. My advice is to trust him. Then after you know him better move into a more serious relationship. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

If you really, like him get a back ground check before you make up your mind. It's hard to tell, so your heart and some common sense will have to do. Criminal history and credit check my give you an idea about who he is and whether he can be trusted or not. Be careful, anything is possible.

Answer 7

Be wary of anyone who after a short time wishes to speed up a relationship like he wants to what`s the rush is there an underlying problem somewhere or does he just want to you know what?

Answer 8

You need to trust your gut about this guy; why is he moving so quicky? And is the amount of contact you have with him the right amount for you to move ahead. Good luck

Answer 9

Let him know that you want to get to know him better first. If he really loves you already, which i highly doubt, then he would make time to do things with you.

Answer 10

well that really sucks that you never get to see him. how long have you guys been together? maybe you should go with him on one of his trips. i think that maybe it will be a good experience for both of you guys. and maybe it will help u guys move on with your relatinship.