.I'm 22 by the way
What are some Do's and Don'ts when it comes to a date (whether it's your first or third date)?
What date is it ok to hold hands or kiss(second third or fourth) for the first time?
How many dates do people wait before they have sex?(which I really don't until we become serious)
2007-03-15 04:54:37 · 22 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only advice i can offer here is ... Do whatever you can do and still fall asleep at night comfortably, and dont do things that will make you feel bad about yourself. Be yourself and true to yourself.
Its ok to kiss on the first date for some, and not for others. Id wait on a really special moment,the kind you cant resist the kiss. they are always better.
dates... hurm... again, things should pick up the pace after a few dates and you would either discuss it or wait until it cant be resisted...Waiting isnt wrong... if they say what didnt you make a move say "i was being respectful"..
when dealing with a partner/date just remember, they have an idea of how things should go. Talking about it isnt necessarly bad.
2007-03-22 22:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by David Parker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if on that date ur just looking for some fun or someone to have a possible future with, if thats the case i'd say holding hands on the first date is okay. and maybe a kiss at the end of the date. if ur really into him and u plan on a second date then dont do to much at once, leave him wanting more. dont seem to easy, but dont be all frigid either. you'll find alot of guys want to have sex the first date whether they let you know or not. i agree with you about no sex until ur serious. if hes interested in you he'll wait for the right time too. but everyones different, some will have sex the first date some not till they're married. do what you feel is right. if the guy dont agree or respect your choices hes not the one for you.
2007-03-23 00:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by smarta$$ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. There is nothing wrong with holding hands or even kissing in the beginning but the sex should b held off for a while. You need to make sure that's not all he wants and make sure that's what you want. Dont talk about exes, and be yourself. Dont be too serious or to emberrassed. Just have fun.
2007-03-15 05:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Yankees Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Dont's dont ever force into sex.. Take it slow. Then in a very sexy tone ask " Are you ready?" He will know what to say, and what u r talking about. Do's Well if you ar e planning the evevning then try to think of somewhere different. Like maybe your backyard... Or talk a walk in the park... He wil enjoy it.. And nobody will be there so if you have sex nobody will notice you.. LOL You should wait about .. 4.. and yes wait until you are definetly serios. Also tell your mate to have a condem in his pocket LOL
2007-03-15 05:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Brianna R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Be yourself.
2) Hold his hand or give a small sweet kiss when you feel comfortable.
3) NEVER give up anything too soon (sex). You are only cheating yourself. Fact is, like it or not, men don't want to take a tramp home to mama. Make him wait and you'll gain his respect and build self-respect too.
4) You are an adult and have to set your own boundaries. No one can tell you what's right for you or your own body.
2007-03-23 03:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by vabeachgirl324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advise I could give you is to be yourself on a date. I wouldn't kiss until maybe the 3rd date. Definatly don't have sex for a while. Its o.k to hold hands on the first date.
2007-03-15 04:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you feel comfortable if you want to kiss on the second kiss on the second if not kiss when you feel like it. I think you should be serious before you have sex with someone too.
2007-03-15 04:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a female, and you do a guy on the first date. He'll like it a lot but he will think you're a hoe and have no respect for you. Hold out for at least the 3rd or 4th.
2007-03-22 16:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mike B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
urm ..
1 )Dont ever talk on ure cell or text for more than 5 mins during the whole date , unless its an impt call , tell him in advance ..,
2)Dont talk abt your ex , either gd or bad
3)DOnt talk abt yourself 24/7 , ask him something abt himselves as well to show that ure interested in him .
urm ..i think holding hands or kissing maybe on the second date onwards , unless its just a kiss on the cheeks ..but its totally up to u n how ure date went ...
as for sex thats totally up to u lol ...
2007-03-15 05:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do:
1. Show you're interested, for them, this automatically ups your attractiveness, and it shows confidence.
2. Be upbeat
3. Listen twice as much as you speak, that's why we're given two ears and one mouth. (sorry, I just had to throw that in there)
Don't
1. Bring up marriage
2. Put out
3. Answer your cell phone (even if you're having a lousy time, it's still rude)
2007-03-22 23:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋