Should a virgin female keep her virginity until she has gotten married?

Answer 1

yes,because you will not go through unesscary hurt,and you
truly love yourself to kmow that sex is not for you,if I could
do all over sex isn,t worth it,emotionally it hurt and you lose
part of your soul,that what happen to me when i lose my
virginity,and i am still in the process of becoming whole
again even though i can,t never go back,oh how i wish i could
cherish it is very valuable,don,t let no one pressure you you are worth waiting for.

Answer 2

To answer your question, Id like to first thank all thr men for their honesty. It's nice to see men also answer and have an opinion on this issue.
I remained a virgin until I was engaged. To be open here, I really don't think it is necessary to remain celibate until marriage.Sexual intimacy, like any aspect of a relationship depends a great deal on compatibility. It is possible to love a person and discover they do not meet your sexual needs. Open discussion and counselling can assist of course as long as the couple remembers to be honest. Still, there is that possibility the couple will go their separate ways.
I am not by any means advocating a sexual hay day, but rather a respect for yourself and your ideals while at the same time being realistic. Love is a wonderful thing and sharing yourself with the person you love is a natural progression of the relationship. If the relationship is healthy and you love yourself, being sexually active with your love is normal.
Most men; yes, will appreciate very much a virgin to marry, however, most men also understand love and will not judge too harshly in the event a woman has been sexually active before marriage. No matter what you decide, open communication and complete honesty with your partner is the way to go.

Answer 3

Well, it depends on you completely. There are a number of approaches that you must contemplate:

Religiously, the majority of religions, if not all, demands you to be a virgin until you are married for life, especially the Christian-based ones. If you are a very Religious person and really want to fulfill those expectations you should stay a Virgin.

Socially, a bigger pressure grow son and on every time we see a movie, talk to friends or simply watch the society. Nowadays is all about sex and how many persons you have been with, ignore it. If you want to have sex, and for what I can tell, you are wondering if you should, go for it. Sex is a very gratifying experience, but there is only a ONE first time, I advice you to wait until you are really sure that you have found the one. and you will go for it, you will know when and with whom.

Answer 4

Yes and no. Yes it's a good "idea" but thats it. Lack of experience in sex, usually means a lack of experience in life. i.e. Their is an extremely HIGH chance, Mr. Wrong. will marry her. Abusing the fact she is nieve. I've seen to many marriages where the woman is very "clueless" to life, and sticks with it for moral purposes. An example, a guy i know, has 2 kids, diffrent mothers, works 1 job, and plays video games. His "virgin" wife, has 1 kid by him, takes care of both children all day long, works full time, goes to school full time, handles all the business afairs, Cooks/cleans and takes care of him. Personally "I WISH I COULD BE THAT CRUEL", but alas i cant. Why because she is trying so hard to keep their relationship, that "perfect" idea of being with only 1 person. Needless to say, i know the guy, and he doesn't even watch his kids. The times i see him, he's sleeping with the baby in another room, full diaper, and crying, untill she returns. But back to the question, no. That is a cliche thought. it's outdated, and stupid. IMHO, virgins are usually ignorant. When you base life off principals instead of life, you lower yourself. Heres a better question, Ladies? would you sleep with me for $5mil? And no one gets to find out? Bet all your principles will take a nosedive after that. So what is virginity?

Answer 5

Yes. A virgin girl is so rare to find these days. I think that it is a wonderful gift to be able to give to your husband. I am going next year to the Philippines in order to marry my fiance, and I will be recieving that gift. I think that it is a beautiful thing. Just remember to use the tub for the first couple of times, or lay plastic on the bed. LOL

Answer 6

Mmmm yes i my self think about this a lot as well, should i wait. to tell you i am still a virgin. And what you should keep in mind is one. Do you live him, and is this what you want. Two your virginity is something very speshal and when you lose that its gone, so be sure your ready. Then as well if you do have sex you need to ask your self and i am responsible? thats just a few thinks to think about there is a lot more i would say but think on that.

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Answer 7

i imagine you should attend until eventually the right second comes alongside. i'm 19 and nevertheless a virgin. I actually were courting my bf for a million a million/2 years and he's universal with that i wish to attend. I also concern about getting pregnant or contracting a ailment.

Answer 8

That is entirely up to her and her fiance, but if a woman has maintained her virginity for the purpose of sharing that specialness only with her husband than she should wait for that as planned. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 9

It is her chose. Whatever she feels comfortable with. When she feels it is the right time she can lose her virginity. Whether she is married or not. I personally think though they should keep it till marriage but i try not to judge girls who don't.

Answer 10

if she is very popular and liked by many guys and has boyfriens then yes she will have something that they want and it is a good way to keep them as they want to be the one to take her virginity but if she is a geek better she keep it in case she turns popular or find the right man and will be sorry she gave it up for no reason like to be loved etc hope i helped