my friend really likes me and he keeps asking if i whant to have sex with him and i dont know what to say should i say yes or no or somethimg else?
o yeah did i mention im only 14?
2007-03-15 04:23:53 · 17 answers · asked by Hannah H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he is being inappropriate and your answer is no. What kind of friend harasses you? He is not your friend at all!
2007-03-15 04:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're only 14, here are two rules for you to live by:
- You don't have to answer a question just because someone asked you
- If someone asks you a rude question, you can answer it in a rude way (or don't answer it at all).
Now that we've gotten that out of the way, ask yourself if you want to have sex with this person. If the answer is no, say it. If the answer is yes, then get some birth control and make sure he respects you and does it on your terms.
2007-03-15 11:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no rude answer to a rude question. Just tell him to quit asking you that or at least to get a better line! At 14, you really need to be thinking about something else and not having sex with a "friend".
2007-03-15 11:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O my Lord!! I am actually scared for you, if at fourteen, you don't know that you have the right to SAY NO. Darling, you are much too young to start having sex. Your body is precious and you have the absolute right to keep control over it. Just because he keeps asking you, doesn't mean you have to give in. He is out of order and as soon as you give in, he's probably going to drop you anyway. Tell him to get away from you.
2007-03-15 11:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 14, say no. Just let him know it makes you uncomfortable that he keeps asking you such a question...You're too young to start having sex. The reprocussions arent worth it...
2007-03-15 11:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Yankees Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..you are way to young. hopefully you say no. there is a difference between love and lust. getting so romantically involved with your friend will only ruin what you have. you have your whole life ahead of you..what is the rush? do other things with your friend..really see if its just more than him wanting to get you in bed. i personally would say no.
2007-03-15 11:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by monroe2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really your friend he wouldnt ask you anyway, tell him your not ready, and you want to remain as friends only, most guys will take a hint.
2007-03-15 11:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gush! what exactly in ur mind when he asked that? is it "no", or "yes"? it depend on ur self. but if i may suggest, u better explain to him that ur only 14. and if he push u, say it "loud" girl! make him understand ur point! better find another friend.
2007-03-15 11:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First... I think you are too young for sex... you have your life in front of you for that.... BUT if you feel you must answer, something vague like "you"ll know when I do". That doesn't commit you and yet gives him an answer.
Please think seriously before you take that big step.
2007-03-15 11:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by t g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop asking, but only after you say no, which I assume is your answer. If he gets weird about it, stop hanging out with him.
2007-03-15 11:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋