So, I started dating this guy when I was 16 and he was 14 and we fell in love almost instantly. Not long after, he told me he wasn't ready for such a serious relationship. Understandable, he was 14. After the break up he told a mutual friend that he could see himself marrying me someday. That makes it harder to move on. I have been in love with him ever since. I've seen him from time to time and each time I think I will be ok, I never am, I seem to fall harder than I did before. I have had relationships since him, but I can't get these feelings to subside. We started to be friends again 2 years ago and we are friends and talk here and there. He recently went to college 8 hours away and it's tough. I'm going up to visit some friends in that same area and I'm going to see him while I'm up there. What do I do? A part of me wants to just kiss him when I see him, but the other side doesn't want to be rejected by the one that I think may be my soul mate. Please help, I'm desperate.
2007-03-15 04:17:06 · 6 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can certainly relate to your feelings... I think the best thing to do is either risk it and tell him how you feel, knowing he might reject you....or just try to forget about him and push him out of your mind. It's tough but you gotta do what you gotta do! If something is pushing you to tell him and you really feel like he is the one then maybe you should tell him and if it doesn't work out at least know that you did what you felt was right! Good luck!!!
2007-03-15 04:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep it as simple as possible, put your fears aside if you can (I know it is hard), and talk to him.
You don't need to go on about how you think you are soulmates etc. Just ask if he would be interested in a relationship now. There is only one way you're going to find out.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 11:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothin wrong with that.im kinda n the same situation.if u wanna go back with him talk 2 him bout gettin back 2gether.
2007-03-15 11:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by janae_gaines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up a reason and go to him.. but this time dont just talk to him.......... but propose to him... he may accept you... or not. but the feelings which you are going through now will be taken care of... by his decision. a LIFE is ahead of you and you cant waste it with your mixed feelings... so.. go ahead and make ur life...
2007-03-15 11:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by heart0throb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you feel and if he doesnt feel the same way dont worry you will find someone that does feel that way about you and if he is the right guy youll feel the same way.
2007-03-15 11:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by ☮chargrilled☮ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told us how you feel, now you just have to tell him exactly what you told us. good Luck!
2007-03-15 11:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋