I went and Told the guy that I liked him. Knowing that this other girl was going to see him this weekend I told him that I thought that it was not a Good Idea if we kept talking everyday like we were... So Since Monday I have not talked to him... I am going Crazy... I want to call him so bad... I want to hear his voice... I miss him so much... What do I do?? Do I continue not to talk with him? Do I call him?? How do I keep myself from calling him? I miss him so much...
2007-03-15 04:11:15 · 6 answers · asked by princesscrystal2382 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 24...
2007-03-15 04:25:35 · update #1
Has he attempted to call?? What was his reaction when you told him of your feelings? Did he seem to be interested,defensive,or just give you a cheesy grin with a dismissing look? Honesty and communication are key to any type of relationship whether it be friendship or romantic in nature.You have been honest and communicated your feelings.If you want to call him do so,but ask yourself if you are willing to get hurt down the road?? Maybe he is too young to understand what true friendship is really worth...I would call
once putting the ball in his court,in turn letting him know it is ok to call.He needs to outline exactly what his intentions are toward you....We all fall in and out of love,but true friends you can usually count on one hand....Think about that for awhile.This guy might realize what he is missing with alittle time....
Good luck.
2007-03-17 07:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jim J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you told him for a good reason - you didn't want to go crazy over it. Same situation applies now. Personally, I think that if he was interested he would call. If a guy told you he liked you and you were also interested, wouldn't you be calling him the next day? However, if there is any question in your mind, then call him again - just so you're not left wondering.
Another question is - do you want to remain friends outside of a relationship? Not just so that someday maybe he'll change his mind, but legitimately to maintain the friendship. I had a very good female friend many years ago. We were friends for a couple years. Then there were...complications. I continued to call her, but she seemed a bit distant. So, I stopped calling and waited to see if she would call me sometime - she didn't. We didn't speak for at least a couple more years, and come to find out - she thought I'd ditched her. She felt so hurt that she wouldn't let me back into her life. I always regretted not calling when I'd wanted to, because I'd wanted her to remain my friend and I lost that. So, if you want to remain friends, call and see what's up and if he's not interested - just let him know that you've valued the friendship and would like to forget all about the conversation earlier in the week and continue the friendship where you left off.
2007-03-16 23:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by MikeG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing your between the age of 13-15. right? well i am too. i think from personal experience, he probably doesn't even know what he's doing. you should definetly call him and just talk to him. i talk to my ex a lot and everytime we talk for over 3 hours he thinks we have somthing in common because we can hold a conversation for a long time. well just call him and see where it goes from there.
2007-03-15 11:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chelsea L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him but make up something to talk about!!! Say it's urgent and I need your advice!!! You could say like I have this problem and I don't know who else to turn to!! Can you please help?? but you have to think of a good problem to talk about!!
2007-03-15 11:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cat Tien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call hım tell hım ıf he lıkes u dont punısh your self for not hearing hıs voıse
2007-03-15 11:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by baby faced satan woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to yourself always be true
face it, he hasn't called you
seems he likes the other chick
forget him,don't make yourself sick
2007-03-15 21:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋