but she is the only one that i like the most in my class the other
people are scary but after school she alwas hangs around me
but the thing is she can not hang because she is fat and she
is contry what should i do
2007-03-15 04:10:23 · 11 answers · asked by fishlover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's your friend, then it doesn't matter that she's fat, and country; you should try being a true friend to her.
2007-03-15 04:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just goes to show me what kind of a person you are.You shouldn't (nor you're friend)care what other people think about her.You know she's a good person so don't let anyone's comments intimidate you're decision to remain friends with her.She needs support from someone and she needs a friend now more than ever.One day she will get tired of people making fun of her and will stand up to them.And one day the people that are making fun of her will be fat and ugly.And she will be the same person she's always been beautiful inside and out.Beauty is only skin deep.You cant judge someone by the way they look on the outside.And when these kids mature they will realize this.Kids are the cruelest people in the world. You shouldnt let they're comments change you're mind about you're friend.Someone has to be the strong one and if you stand you're ground,one day they will come around and will see her for who she is too.If youre her true friend you will never let anyone talk bad about her.If you are ashamed of her because she's fat and dont want to let others know youre friends with her,Then you are just as bad if not worse than them.You know what the response to this question was going to be before you asked it.You just wanted someone to answer that you are right by being this way so it would make you feel better about youreself because you know youre wrong.But,guess what honey no one is gonna agree with you.So trust youre gut instinct and do the right thing.
2007-03-15 11:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by mygrandparentsrthebestintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her then surely the fact that she is fat and country shouldn't matter. You either like her and want to hang out with her or you don't, you need to make the decision you can either hang out with her and be her friend or you don't. If you find the other people in your class scary but you like this girl then surely you already know what you have to do
2007-03-15 11:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, let me get this straight. you said that she is the only girl in your class that you like very much BUT you do not want her to hang around you because she is "fat and country". Then, why are you being friendly to her for her to befriend you? You mean, you like her for whom she is without being around your other friends? When your other friends-who do not like her-comes along, you just sit back and let her get picked on and talked about? What the F kind of a friend are you, really? You are not really her friend. What should you do? You should re-evaluate the way you treat people. You should re-evaluate you being a phony. You should tell her that you like her and that she is okay to say 'Hi' to, but, YOU like to keep your image and she does not fit that. Then, she won't be hanging around your skinny, city A-S-S! Then, you won't have anything to worry about and you-to her and anyone else-can be just like your friends. Sad, mean bullies who do not care about how they hurt people and make a habit out of it.
That is what you should do.
2007-03-15 11:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who gives a crap if she is fat or country. down the road when you are out of school and in real life, it doesnt matter who is popular or pretty or skinny. If you like her as a friend, stand up for her. It sounds like your friends are superficial and are stuck up. If they really determine whether to be friends with a person by their outer appearance are they really friends. What does that say about you if you follow them. Be your own person and follow your own heart and make your own opinions. sorry if sounds mean but that really irks me the way kids are treated in school.
2007-03-15 11:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend. Fat doesn't make you a bad person. If you were fat would you want people to dislike you just because you were fat? Some people can't help being fat.
2007-03-15 11:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just dump her because other people don't like her. People that shallow can never make great friends. If you like being friends with someone and they cant respect that then they arent really your friends.
2007-03-15 11:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by daquiet_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the rest of them and hang with her. Don't let other people control you.
2007-03-15 11:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stıck wıth one person hang out wıth every one
2007-03-15 11:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by baby faced satan woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry abt d other....its only u hu r goin 2 be with her...jus continue hanngin around with her .....nd if u leave her alone now, it might her...
2007-03-15 11:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by cutegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋