In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?
2007-03-15 04:05:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree this is great revenge. congratulations to yoursel ffor taking charge of your life and losing the ideal weight and becoming happy with yourself. im sure your pleased with yourself and your acomplishments in both life and love.
however i must go back and answer the question. I think it was a good move to say no to the girls who have annoyed and teased you because you were considered "unattractive" to them. this means they didn't like you for your personality and only looks and they are very shallow. its good bcause perhaps they will start thinking of treating people right, no matter their looks, and will become "nicer" people in the future.
but congrats on everything and good luck in the future.
2007-03-15 04:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by crazlilstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question a number of times, havent you? Some you might have deleted. Still, you know the answer to that yourself. Let me ask you, why do you hold so much grudge and hatred? High school and college has such a time gap. Grow up! Dont stoop down to the level that they once were. Where's the self- dignity in that? Show everyone by being a different and better person.
2007-03-15 04:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Serendipity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily. It's greater revenge to be extremely nice to them and not be all arrogant. But let them see what they could of had but can't anymore.
I hate people like them....you just got to remember, that's high school for ya. After high school popularity doesn't matter anymore....not so much at least unless universities are the same. People eventually grow up and I'm sure they may realize that they made a mistake.
Just don't be an *** about it because if you are and they have actually grown up and matured they may think they were lucky to have never gone out with you.
If you are being egotistical and assholy then it's a HUGE turn off but being an extreme sweetheart and showing off your good natured personality they are gonna wish they never made fun of you and wish they would have given you a chance.
2007-03-15 04:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You were being just as terrible to them as they had been to you. The best revenge is living well. The same thing happened to me in high school, and when I came back from college everyone realized that they should have treated me better. It doesn't mean that I'll be friends with them by any means. But there would be no point in sinking to their former levels.
2007-03-15 04:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im sorry but I must agree with the first person. You sound like a hateful, freshmen in high school. Why does it matter? Why should they care about what you've done in high school? You have done great things, but you are ruining it by being childish and trying to get revenge.
2007-03-15 04:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley_Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mike, revenge? No that is not revenge. Revenge would be to go ahead a go out with them, use them and then say BYE!
Your being snobbish just like they were to you in High School. Are you sure your in college?
2007-03-15 04:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tony S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes!! I was teased in middle school because I had buck teeth and badly chapped lips. Well I switched schools, got braces and my lips got better, and I had lots of guys wanting to date me. So now whenever I run into anyone who used to tease me, I flaunt my newfound beauty and make them feel like idiots.
Look at it this way, we were both ugly ducklings back then and now we are SWANS!!!
2007-03-15 04:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by srjmhottie17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would seem like great revenge, but it really just makes you as mean as them. Just be cool and let them suffer! If they want to be with you just say "well, thanks for the compliment but I have my eye on someone" and keep on going. BUT, on the flip side.......as Ann Landers used to say "time wounds all heels".......maybe one day you can let it go and be polite friends. I'm really good friends with a gal who treated me like trash in high school. Who knew? We're both older and wiser now!
2007-03-15 04:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by blondee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW that's real cool -- YOU'RE DA MAN !!,
did have some other comments. but think the Yahoo folks
will put it much better than I.
P.S. when you're grown up--you'll be able to reverse that
cranial/rectal inversion -- it'll make you feel as small
as revenge normally makes one feel -- but you'll grow
from the experience.
2007-03-15 04:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted revenge then congratulations! You have now stooped to the same immature level they were on and possibly even surpassed their meanness and childishness.
WOOHOO FOR YOU! You are certainly full of yourself now, huh?
2007-03-15 04:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋