In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?
2007-03-15 04:04:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Amen brother. I would so like to beat up all those jocks back in my high school. They were such sheeps. They had to dress the same, act the same and talk the same. I really became quite nauseated over the whole thing. I heard that some of them passed on and it made me laugh at how hard they clinged to values that would do them absolutely no good. Good luck in your quest to take those clowns down.
2007-03-15 04:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Obi-wan Kenobi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let me ask you a question. Was it a kind act for them to do what they did to you? AS another answerer stated Aren't you doing the same thing ? Being mean also? Are you at all interested in having the same benevolence for others that God has for you? If so, then your best bet (not only to them, but to yourself) is to act like a man, not a child who knows nothing about how to treat others, and in some way apologize to them as this will assuage the unsettled feelings that you seen to have.
2007-03-15 04:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure it felt good, but I have been in your position also, and I was tempted to be awful to these people, but instead, I flaunted my killer body and when the men that were mean boys to me before, asked me out, I told them that all is forgiven, but I couldnt go out with someone who was in the long run very cruel. and then want to make nice when they saw I have a large bra size and small waist.....I would still flirt with them, which made them think they may have a chance, but I knew would never have the pleasure of my company....I loved it!!! =)
2007-03-15 04:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by whaleloverinlou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not great revenge, it's immature. You were all kids then, and are now adults, supposedly; try acting like one and get over how you were treated as a kid, by other kids. Just because you're "buff" now, that's no reason to behave so badly!
2007-03-15 04:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's perfectly acceptable. In fact, now that you took up boxing, I suggest you throw in a jab or two, maybe a sucker punch to the gut as well. Then when they're all doubled over crying, start mocking the noises they make and throw the beer bottle at them.
2007-03-15 04:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by DarkLord_Bob 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like snob, but it may feel good temporarily.
However, you should consider the factor that they may have just been like that because it was group thinking psycology. One didn't like you, and they were the leader of the group, so they all couldn't like you. Now that they have gotten older and more mature, they're finally able to express their feelings.
Or I could be wrong.
You should just have let it go. That was then, this is now.
2007-03-15 04:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by thesatsui 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better revenge is be cordial, polite, but show no other interest. Kill them with kindness. Otherwise, you are no better than what they were to you. Be the better person.
2007-03-15 04:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by biscuitperifrank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is termed being a jerk!!! im sorry i cant simpathy with ur "revenge movements" because u didnt like it at the same time as they teased u, so why may u be a jerk to them? did it experience sturdy at the same time as they rejected u?? do u imagine that they experience sturdy about it too? i dont imagine so. i imagine that s being a jerk. and u r being too inmature, bear in options, that replaced into in severe college, adn maximum young ones in undemanding words care about seems at that age. they were youthful, they didnt evaluate human beings for his or her capacities, yet for his or her look. they in undemanding words had to maintain their social status up in severe college, and probably felt embarassed by ability of being seen with a nerd. and back THEY were basically young ones!!! young ones are f*cking stupid. yet YOU, u r grown up, what replaced into the reason to lead them to experience undesirable??? in my view, u ought to bypass as a lot as them and appologize, tell them that it truly struck u how badly they dealt with u in severe college, and at the same time as u said them those options got here back, and that u r sorry for being a jerk. bear in options, it wasnt humorous at the same time as human beings made exciting of u. so dont be a jerk to others, in spite of in the journey that they dealt with u that way.
2016-12-02 01:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is fun but not always the best thing. let it go
2007-03-15 04:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Adam M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's stupid. You're being just as wrong and mean to them as they were to you. You're no better than they are.
2007-03-15 04:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋