I've been with my bf for 2 months(im 20,hes24)When we first i could tell he was really into me,always wanted me around,introduced me to his family..now he seems more distant.when were together hes very affectionate and attentive,but we dont see each other as often as im used to.Me and my ex saw each other almost everyday.We do live about 30min away from each other,but he doesnt have his licence only i do, which means he doesnt even have to drive to see me. I usually see him once during the week and then we go out and party during the weekend,or we are with his parents. he lives with 2 other guys,so its hard to spend alone time with him.He tells me all the time how much he cares about me and that he has 'really strong feelings' towards me,but don't u think he would want to see me more?I am his first gf in 2 years and i know he's been badly hurt by girls b4, so do u think he's just taking it slow or that he's scared to get too attached, or is he just not that into me??
2007-03-15 03:50:40 · 12 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you two are technically still dating and aren't BF/GF. At this stage in the relationship, it sounds like things are doing well. Don't screw it up by comparing him to old relationships.
2007-03-15 03:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the same situation that I have with my boyfriend. Your guy doesnt have a car so he may want to see you more but he cant. Just give it time and stick it out every relationship you have will be different. He may really like you and wants to take it slow to make sure he doesnt get hurt again.
2007-03-15 11:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by daquiet_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just needs some time. Just give him his space, and if he really is as into you as he says, he will come around and spend more time with you.
However, you should also tell him to get off his *** and get a license already. Someone that age should have a drivers license, and a car.
Good Luck!!!!
2007-03-15 10:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by srjmhottie17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me hes evaluating you in a deep way. if he really loves you , you must know or at least realise that he loves you but most thing i dont like is that he lives with 2 other guys and the fact that he lives near you and you dont see each other that much is not quite a push in your relation. maybe you should talk to him and make him tell you what he really feels for you
2007-03-15 10:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by aircapone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to ask yourself why you think it is necessary to spend so much time with him. You have the rest of your life to develop a relationship with him. If he is meant to be with you, there is nothing that will stop it. If, on the other hand, he's not meant to be with you , then nothing will prevent that .
From my own experience with women, any time i felt pressured to do things "her "way my first instinct was to get away from her because it usually indicated that she had control issues.
2007-03-15 10:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be he is afraid of getting hurt and is taking things slow but if you feel he is not spending enough time with you you need to speak up and tell him how you feel and then he may open up and say what is making him act the way he is
2007-03-15 10:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he is into you. He says he has strong feelings for you also. Perhaps it the fact that he has 2 other housemates. If it is bothering you tell him you would like to see him more. I honestly do not think you have to worry
2007-03-15 10:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is just too scared to get too attached because of all the things that happen to him in his past life. so of he loves u and u love him just give him sometimes to adapt and two months is way too early to start criticizing his attitude. give it some times and if he doesn't change u can talk to him.
2007-03-15 11:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
free taxi dinner with the family not too close and not too far away see a pattern here and besides ur gut is already talkin to u listen to it move on
2007-03-15 10:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's 24 and no license? LMFAO
probably no job either, huh?
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2007-03-15 10:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋