Christian resources for a wife whose husband is stuck...?

Question

My husband has a history with trouble with pornography. A year after we married (almost another year ago now) he subscribed to Covenant Eyes to keep him accountable. We've had those horrible talks, I've cried until I'm lost, and my trust in him has been destroyed and rebuilt more than once. Now, I discovered that it's his thought life that's in trouble. No more pornography (real porn at least), but he's looking up sexual things in encyclopedias, etc.
I can't ask him for help to deal with this myself, and he thinks I shouldn't talk to anyone by myself without him there. But there are personal things that only a woman knows, ya know?

Where do I turn? What Bible verses can I use when I find myself wanting vengance and having my own fantasy life (in a much cleaner way, of course)?

Answer 1

I hope you understand how embarrassing this is for him. He does need help. And you need help also. Bible verses are great but this will not really solve the problem. I suggests a Christian Counselor.
You may have to suggest Marriage Counseling first, then let the Counselor handle the How's? Why's? etc.
Try this web site:
http://www.newlife.com/ (the old Minerth Meier Clinic)
There are a lot of resources there and they may be able to refer you to someone local.
Good luck and let me know if there is more I can do to help.

edit:
Here's a good one.
http://www.newlife.com/Articles/article.asp?libid=918

Answer 2

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