All I want is love and a hug every so often. But nobody pays any attention to me. I feel detested. Why does everyone treat me this way as though I'm a piece of ****? Am I really that worthless?
2007-03-15 03:46:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Bobbit,
By looking through your "questions" profile, I see that you are having a lot of issues right now. I think you need the help of a professional and not someone on Yahoo Answers.
Please share your sadness, anger, and anxiety with an adult (parent, teacher, friend, Doctor) and ask for help. There is help available for you.
Please call 911 or go to the closest emergency room if you feel you are going to hurt yourself.
I care about you and want you to feel better.
See a psychiatrist/therapist as soon as possible. I have faith you will do the right thing.
And of course, you are NOT worthless.
2007-03-15 05:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Libby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who said your detested, I didn't nor did several others I expect.
You are just suffering from lack of self-esteem and confidence. You are definitely not worthless. Have you spoken to your parents about your feelings, if I was you parent, I would hug you anytime, any day, and a parent always love their child, even if they do things they don't like their children doing.
If it is your friends making you feel this way, then dropped them, find another friend and them progress to making more new friends. To be honest with you, I only ever had one close friend at a time, in a group I felt insecure and worthless, sometimes I felt like I was talking to myself, and my feelings were worth zero, so you are not alone in your feeling.
Many of us feel like this at sometime in our lives, but I must stress you are not worthless.
Good luck and best wishes for your future.
2007-03-15 10:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by lazybird2006 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not worthless. No one is. Are you extremely needy to your friends? If you require too much attention, seem to feel sorry for yourself, etc. this could push people away. I know this because my mom is that way.
If this isn't the case, then I would do what someone else said. Ask someone you know isn't afraid to tell you the truth.
2007-03-15 11:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mystical Illusions 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bobbit here's your (((hug))) We are paying attention to you. If I detested you, I would avoid your questions when I see your name. Keep talking, we're here for you.
2007-03-16 12:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by susan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should do some soul searching-why people react the way they do towards you. Maybe you do things they find unacceptable. Get someone who is not afraid to let you know.
2007-03-15 10:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by Rene B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋