I told my boyfriend that I love him & he said that I'm probably sincere about it but he just doesn't feel that I do. Why would he think I'd tell him something like that if I didn't mean it? I'd do anything for him & he knows that so why doesn't he feel that it's love? I let him come to my place & shower, I do his laundry, whenever he calls I'm there for him. Why doesn't he feel the love?
2007-03-15 03:20:49 · 15 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to him about it and ask him if he fills the same way about u, im not trying to be negative or somethin but if he is sayin that he doesnt fill that u do luv him then maybe he is hinting that he doesnt luv u yet or maybe he luvs u to much and hes afraid that u dont luv him as much as he luvs u.
hope i helped
2007-03-15 03:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, interesting.....but you are dealing with a man and you should know how they are.....difficult!! Well, those things that you are doing, to me, does not scream LOVE....some of those things...laundry, being there for him....is something that your parent does as well. Does he love you? I would sit him down and ask him to explain to you, EXACTLY, why he does not feel that you love him. Maybe he does not want to feel the love b/c there is none on his end......just a thought? Good Luck!!!
2007-03-15 10:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you said were the words he used, then it is obvious he is using you. It has nothing to do with being a man or hiding his emotions. What he is doing is making you think that you aren't doing enough for you. If you believe that crap, then you will do even more for him, and he will be even happier. Now he will have the perfect slave.
I am sorry to be so blunt, but if that is what he said, then he doesn't care about anything except having a free slave.
2007-03-15 10:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG hun, he's using you! He wants you to prove your love by being his doormat! You're providing hotel facilities with extras! Refuse to do his laundry, tell him to wash his stinky butt at his own house, and if he wants you to prove you love him he can start by proving he's worthy of your love!
2007-03-15 10:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he already has one mother and you are acting like a pretend mother...wash his clothes??? Always there for him??? Are you his girlfriend or mother wannabe? Start letting him do things for himself, and don't always be available 24/7 and then see if things change. He is definitely taking you for granted now.
2007-03-15 10:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's on a power trip. If he keeps telling you this then you will do whatever he asks to prove it to him. Tell him to get over himself and if he doesnt' see it then he needs to move on.
2007-03-15 10:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he doesnt love you back is stalling you by making u think u dont really love him. he still likes u or needs u but maybe he doesnt love you
2007-03-15 10:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by michelle t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your guy is just looking for a fight.. and a reason to break up with you..
either that or
he's just sooooooo insecure..
stroke his ego.. make him feel you need him.. that way there'll be no doubt that you love him.. remember.. actions speak louder than words..
2007-03-15 10:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is like explaining color to a blind person. You cannot subject it to analysis.
2007-03-15 10:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God!!! You're his maid. He sounds selfish and egotistical. Has he shown you how much he loves you?
I agree with boomo26.
2007-03-15 10:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋