OK, this is the deal..I have been talkin' 2 this guy 4 bout 3 months & finally we talked about him, briefly. It was about that he has been hurt twice & that he wants 2 take things slow & not rush n2 anything,which is fine with me AS LONG AS I am it, until he figures it out. Which he is cool with. So knowin that I kind of pulled back a little, you know? Like, I was not sweatin him as much..not calling, etc, givin' some space. So he says "Whats' good, Keish"? I said "You of course" and he said that he is feeling a vibe off me..almost like distance or something. And he is right. So, I decided not 2 put the distance but still stick 2 my guns about him & my feelings. Now, I hear him making these comments about him and I, even 2 other people I have never met. Like friends & fam. Ok, last night when he was on the phone with him (I cooked him dinner), he was talking to his bro about whatever relationship problem that his bro had there. He told his bro that his next move was 2 marry wifey....
2007-03-15 03:20:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
& I turned around & he was lookin at me smiling & winked. Now when we are together, it is so intense.....that feelings betweent he both of us. We talk about the future, with our kids etc. We have trips planned throughout the year together. He acknowledges me as his girl. Now my question is how would you take all this. I am not in love with him but i do have mad love for him. How would you handle this situation? What does it mean far as him and I?
2007-03-15 03:23:18 · update #1
Simple, you are madly in love with this guy and he seems to have gotten over his problems now and still wants you around and planning the future together. Throw your hands up and jump up for joy for you are the chosen one.
2007-03-15 03:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by comradechris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you are getting a lot of mixed signals from him. And if I were in your situation, I would definitely take things slower. If you are not "in love" with him, but care about him deeply than perhaps he is more friends material for the time being. Who knows....in the future you may start to really love him. But I wouldn't be planning my future with him at this time.
2007-03-15 10:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KC? Respectfully, ma'am? Back up the Novel Writing. And bring it all back to The Heart. Yours and His. `cause we ain't there to listen to either. It's something that you two are gonna have to know about. Good Luck to you. Guys, Love a good Cook! Congrats!
2007-03-15 10:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get your butt outta there pronto
2007-03-15 10:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it you are trying to say?
2007-03-15 10:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋