here's the deal:there really are cases where grls fall for somebody else while they're in a current relationship. dnt get me wrong,im not a flirt or anythng.i think its completely normal,for as long as you knw your limits.i tried to avoid the feeling but sometimes u cant help it.
there's this really wonderful guy who showed me in all the sweetest ways possible that he is falling for me.and i felt like i was too.i was about to end my current relationship when he suddenly decided to stop calling,talking ,even LOOKING at me probbly bec i was also very open abt talking abt mr current relationship with my bf.
to cut it short, he avoided me, and neglected my existence without even telling me what the real deal was.it felt like it was the right thng to do,& i respected him for that but what if we would hve been able to start a relationship?and pls tell me why are some guys so EXTREMELY INSENSITIVE? they flirt with their best friends and pretend like they are lovers to mke u jealous.Why?
2007-03-15 03:03:31 · 5 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look if a girl that i want has a bf i usually respect that and back off if also she is one of my friends gf i always back off! the only possibility that i will try to do sth is only if i have a big crush on this girl and his bf is unknown to me! so probably when he learned the fact that u have a bf respected that and disappeared! u should have stopped your current relationship earlier or even now its not late and trust me if he really likes u he will learn it fast especially if u find a way to make him learn it by someone other.. now as for ur other question dont blame boys only u girls do shame things such insensitive means (cause i agree that are immature and insensitive means) are used by girls and boys the same.. good luck whatever u do!!
2007-03-15 03:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all? You're both young. Secondly? He's intimidated at playin' Second Fiddle. Third? Aren't you disin' your Current one. By even lookin' at this other guy? What if he was doin' the same to another Girl? You'd be changing your Date Book, in a New York Minute. Be respectful to yourself. But respect the other guys, too. Make your intentions known to the both of `em. But you're gonna have to have serous sit down with your Heart. `Cause your heart is telling you one thing? And your Head is telling you another. I vote the Heart. But it's up to you.
2007-03-15 03:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We men mature slower than you ladies, and we don't necessarily understand the importance of meaningful relationships at an age as early as you. We also have a societal influence that tells us what is it to be a man. Our culture is sex oriented. That is why we do all the things we do concerning women.
If this guy is involved with another woman, leave him alone. He is doing the right thing by avoiding you.
2007-03-15 03:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why ask why? To drive yourself crazy? There is no answer as only he knows what was going on in his mind. You'll get lots of guesses, but that's all they will be. The reality is the "why" doesn't matter as it doesn't change anything. All why does is drive you crazy.
A man who flirt with others in front of you is immature. These types of guys grow up very slowly as society tells them their behavior is normal and acceptable. And if they are teenagers, it is normal but still not acceptable. However, there are very few good men out there that will teach them otherwise. They have to be cool, you know.
Good luck with your future. Forget the past.
2007-03-15 03:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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