we live together and he is with me every night...but what about those phone calls and the emails to me telling me things he says to them...do I trust him or them? I am so confused!! Plus there is an ex gf in his life that she says she is pregnant by him and he says it isn't his he cant produce boys only girls as he has 3 girls now! HELP!!!
2007-03-15 02:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that u should trust him only because these girls may b jealous that u ahve him and they don't.some girls wouldn't get hurt if they ruined a relationship just so the couple wouldn't be happy anymore.So don't let those girls ruin your relationship....it will only hurt you and feed them!
2007-03-15 02:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My!
A guy who says he cant produce boys! LOL LOL LOL How does he know? Has he had a sperm test? 3 girls don't mean squat. My ex had 3 boys and 1 girl. Smile! If this gal says it's his kid. More than likely it is. There is a such thing as lunch breaks. Your not with him all the time.
If he is emailing other women. He is cheating.
When in doubt check it out.
Be your own investigator. As the women to foreword those emails to you. You read them and be the judge of its content.
You then follow him an with your own eyes catch him doing what ever it is you suspect hes doing.
Also you can check his computer out. And get a key logger. That will tell you all you need to know!
Good luck.
2007-03-15 03:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...first of all...TRUST is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you can't trust him--get out before you become even more invested. Saying he cannot produce girls is a complete lie. He is not a doctor and there is no medical condition that causes him to only produce girls.
If it were just the ex gf telling you he was cheating, I would really wonder what she would gain by you two breaking up, but since you say it's a bunch of girls--I think it's time to get out of the relationship--otherwise you will just be the next fertile female for his conquest.
2007-03-15 03:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Amber Ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh geez. Get rid of him now! He can't "produce boys"?! He already has 3 girls? I hope the girls are yours. If enough people tell you the same thing you need to listen.
I mean, they could have alterior motives, but if you have any reason to suspect that he is lying you need to keep your eyes wide open and not be naive. Can the girls forward you the emails?
You can do a dna test when the baby is born to see if he is the father. I highly doubt that he can only produce boys anyway. Having girls is not proof of that.
He is probably taking advantage of your trusting nature.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 03:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by storm_in_teacup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know in your heart the truth. You know you do. Go with that
2007-03-15 02:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Miriah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust yourself thats who!
2007-03-15 02:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋