Okay so he's an older guy and i just found out he has the perfect girlfriend already she is stunningly beautiful, sings fantasticly is a starter on the school volleyball team, Is getting straitht A's and she's rich. I was just about to tell him i liked him too. I don't know what to do about this because I really like him and we flirt a lot but he already has the perfect girl. Any advice help me please!
2007-03-15 02:52:03 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't compare yourself to her, I believe your still unique after all if she is really a so-perfect girl why he would still flirt to you? It's wrong to steal somebody's boyfriend but you can do other ways to win him...or else if you are being discouraged just find somebody else but I tell you there's nothing wrong in trying.
2007-03-15 02:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by guRl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww girl that really stinks.
to tell you the truth theres not much you can do about it. and if they happened to break up he'd be to depressed to notice anything but his ex.
think about this. why didn't he tell you he had a girl friend if you guys were already good acquantices? if you went out with him would you fit in his social sphere?
final bit of advice
just because a guy flirts it does NOT mean he likes you.
2007-03-15 02:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm afraid there is not much you can do for now. Just become his friend and see what develops down the road. And don't get your hopes up or waste any time waiting for him to break up with her. Life is to precious and there are plenty more fish in the sea. Good luck.
2007-03-15 02:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's not much you can do. You can tell him how you feel, but if he's got the "perfect" girlfriend, then be ready for him to reject you.
I'd say you should be happy for him and find someone who doesn't have a girlfriend. If you try to break them up, it could backfire on you big time.
2007-03-15 02:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go ahead and tell him how you feel and then see what he says. Even though he has a girlfriend he might like to be your friend. Being a friend is better than nothing, to tell u the truth he just might like you back if y'all flirt alot.
2007-03-15 02:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, seriously if he was your boyfriend how would you feel if he was flirting with other girls. And besides what makes you think that you are not good enough for him anyways? Find someone that would like you for you. Not what you have.
2007-03-15 02:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by Crooky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he want to flirt with you then, keep it up anyway maybe they won't last forever, in the meantime keep looking for another guy too, you can't wait forever, you never know he might get jealous when your not available.
2007-03-15 02:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing girl you don't want your heart broken so don't flirt with him ALOT...um...tell him you gotta a boyfriend and start hanging out with his girl..It'll drive him crazy..because Guys always want what they can't have!! But, don't like be all up on him..and be cool hang with him but not too long..you'll understand what I mean when you do this..he already likes you...make him want you...not just like u!
2007-03-15 02:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep an eye on him; see how he treats his girlfriend. It could turn out that he aint the biggest gent in the world. Or if they ever break up, seize the chance. you know, girls can ask guys out if they want!
2007-03-15 02:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him the hell alone. Why would he want you if he has the perfect girl? Go find the perfect guy.
2007-03-15 02:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by MBE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋