My friends are being really mean to me. They dont wanna play with me, dont really want to talk to me and it really hurts. I talked to them but they still dont wanna do anything with me! My other friend told me they dont like me because they think im spoiled. I dont know if this is true but i need advice.
2007-03-15 02:42:33 · 28 answers · asked by softballover6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friends r bein really mean to me! The dont wanna talk to me and they dont wanna hang with me anymore! My friend said they dont like me because im spoiled. I can be spoiled but i dont always rub it in their face. I normally show them what i got and be done with it. I am not the person that brags about what they have. I need advice.
2007-03-15 03:21:54 · update #1
My friends dont wanna talk to me or hang out with me anymore! My friend said they arent my friend because they think im spoiled. I am not the one to brag or anything like that. I normally show them what I got and drop the subject. I dont brag. I dont know what to do. I need advice
Thanks :-)
2007-03-15 03:29:42 · update #2
To hell with them. Honestly... ganging up like that on another friend is not true friendship. Find someone else who really does want to be your friend. They aren't worth your time.
2007-03-15 02:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by HoHo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are going to act like that to you then they weren't your friends to begin with. Find some other folks to hang out with. But also it could be the way that you talk to them. If you get someone new they may feel offended by it and maybe you brag about it.
2007-03-15 09:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey don't be so desperate for company.These people are not your friends and just because they aren't accepting of you doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.What you need to do is find people who have interest that you have and those people will have similar interest and you won't feel out of place.Don't ever allow your life to be dictated by what other people think of you or say about you.Usually when people say you are spoiled they mean they are envious of what you are,who you are or what you have so don't sweat it,be assured you have something they wish they had.
2007-03-15 09:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww... I had that problem too!
While it could be that you're spoiled, it also could be that they're not matured enough.
I learnt that sometimes some friends are not good for you. It's better to be your own person than to conform to what your "friends" want you to be.
If they won't hang out with you, find another group of friends that like you for who you are. Individuality is important. Once your friends grow up, they will see that too.
2007-03-15 09:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by saffice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, this is the singles and dating section.
But find some new friends...some who really care about you.
I know, something like that happened to me when I was in fifth grade. These girls would tease me b/c I had these really nice clothes. They were really mean to me. Now I might be going to the same school as the meanest of them in ninth grade, and I still haven't forgiven her.
Just move on and find real, true friends who care about you.
2007-03-15 09:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a completely new set of friends. If the same thing happens, then you actually are spoiled (and overly sensitive as well).
2007-03-15 09:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are not friends at all
you already know that they do not want to hang out with you so all you need to do is leave them alone and go out and meet new people make new friends
2007-03-15 09:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,just be yourself and everything's gonna be alright.And take my word,the spoilt brats are always in the centre of the crowd and not isolated.I've even seen hardcore nerds make pretty good friends with many people.And u dont seem like a nerd.There are plenty of people out there for you to make friends with,just don't restrict yourself to that dirty gang.The more you try to please them,the more bitchy they'll get.
2007-03-15 10:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly they are not your friends ! And hey so what if they think your spoilt you know your not . So heres the thing either you make new friends or if you cant find any try to ressolve this matter or misconception with them and be their friend till you can find a substitute.
GOOD LUCK !
2007-03-15 09:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Spicegal92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to either a) talk to your friends and ask them why they are treating you this way, and make sure they know it hurts you, or b) get some new friends.
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2007-03-15 09:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica Kelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋