I dont mind the idea of another girl involved..but I dont want just anyone..where do u go to find a girl interested in that?
2007-03-15 02:39:36 · 27 answers · asked by mariajd3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
**Note to others** If all you are here to do is judge others, I hope you aren't Christians.
Anyway, I recommend attending a local swingers party. There are several organizations that run clean, respectful parties where you don't do anything if you don't want to. Try looking around on the internet for some. I know in my home state, there are two well-known organizations that I hear run great parties.
You also might want to consider an online service like adultfriendfinder.com. But be careful. Take some time to get to know the people you find.
If you do decide to bring in another woman, make absolutely sure you are ready for it. We considered it for a long time, and the more I thought about it, the more I realized I wasn't secure enough for that kind of sexual relationship. Spend a lot of time talking about it and considering it. As much as we would like to try it, we both have a lot of growing up to do, and neither of us wants to jeopardize our relationship over sex or fantasies. But that's us. Maybe you are ready for it. Just be careful on who you choose. Get to know them! The other woman might end up being a crazy jealous person who is looking to come between you.
Good luck to you!
2007-03-15 02:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havent done it BUT!!! My husband and I did toy with the idea a couple of years ago. We spoke about it and we came to the conclusion that we could fulfil each others needs without a 3rd party. I did read the other posts and I am not here to judge u at all. But my advice if u r going to go through with it is to find a nice reputable brothel which tests their girls on regular basis. I think picking a normal girl out of the sex industry is just asking for trouble. At least with a working girl she is not looking for anything personal but she can hopefully full fill any fantasies that both of you might have. Just remember this....it wont fix other problems in your relationship if u have them. Good luck!! :)
2007-03-15 02:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is a better question. Why do you want to share your man with anyone? Really, I mean, if he wants to be with someone, then he can go and YOU can find a new man. now, if you always thought about the idea of a threesome, is it with a man or with another woman? And, if it is with another woman, is it more for you or for him? And, if he wants a guy, is it for you or for him? You have to ask yourself these questions. Because, you (or him) can change it from a girl to a guy very quickly. So, think about this. Because, trust me, someones feelings will get hurt very quickly.
2007-03-15 02:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
check some local internet dating sites. You will be suprised to find there are people out there looking for the same thing. In your search on the site just make sure you state you are a couple looking for a M or F partner
2007-03-15 02:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by hope 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's another angle.
If he wants a third person involved, how about that person being another male? That way, you get the extra attention.
I'll bet he backs off of that proposition.
2007-03-15 02:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try the classifieds. Or craigslist. There's a lot of people willing to be the "third wheel" per-se.. just make sure you're actually comfortable with it before doing it.
2007-03-15 02:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by MBE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he's not completely satisfied with you? My guess is once the third comes in the second (you) will be out. It's a very interesting plan on his part.
2007-03-15 02:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God Bless You!
Good Luck finding the perfect girl!
2007-03-15 02:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bad bad bad bad bad bad bad idea
could you really deal with talking about it afterwards looking into your bfs eyes and seeing that desire knowing that it could be for that other girl you let into your bed?
other than that, try yahoo groups in your area, google search, adult friend finder, or just go to a bar/club a few nights in a row see if you can spot a few girls, try and get them interested.
2007-03-15 02:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look on myspace for girls in your area who are gay or bi.
I'd have to say though, think about it before you do it. Most relationships end as soon as the three-some is over. (but what a helluva way to go out!)
2007-03-15 02:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by ski4ever1977 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋