She broke up with me after i said i love you....She led me on bigtime making me think she felt the same including telling me that i was her one & only,and then after i expressed my feelings she said things were moving too fast .Now she's contacting me through yahoo personals.She doesn't know it's me..She thinks we're a match,and is thinking long term about finding mr right.....Is this strange or what?
2007-03-15 02:21:40 · 15 answers · asked by Iceman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
During out relationship she was calling me 3 times a day,and inviting me over 3-4 times/week
2007-03-15 02:29:43 · update #1
I'm on yahoo 'cause she broke it off,and i wanted to see what else was out there.I thought i made it clear...SHE contacted ME !
2007-03-15 02:35:43 · update #2
Very weird!
2007-03-15 02:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well iceman some people are just stupid, they can't seem to focus on the good things and the good person they have in front of them. women make that mistake all times, their true love can be someone they say hello to everyday and they don't even know it. now if u really love her and u think she has no idea of who u r on yahoo personal, i think u should make it clear to her and make her believe that u r the one for her then ask her to meet u and when she sees u she would probably have an heart attack for taking u for granted. good luck
2007-03-15 09:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is very strange...she said she doesn't want things between you guys to work because they are moving too fast but then again she's found someone that she has no idea is you and is talking about love term...she's obviously confused or something...just move on...without her!
2007-03-15 09:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by HALOGURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She broke up with you in real life or what here?
Some people are fine with committing themselves to a relationship (or even the other person) but can't uphold the other end. I'd admit it's you quickly, then move on.
2007-03-15 09:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by MBE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's horrible..you must be completely heartbroken.
but you have to know that "i love you" is a very strong thing to say with a extremely deep meaning. even if you really meant it, i think she wasn't ready for it. i think she got scared and pulled back. she's not ready for a serious and committed relationship yet. she'll have to learn. i'm sorry, but i think the best thing you can do would be to move on=( try to find someone who is ready for a committed relationship. my best luck sent your way.
2007-03-15 09:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very strange! I think I would keep chatting with her and not tell her that it is you, then plan to meet up with her somewhere and wont she be surprised when she walks in and sees you! It's kinda like the Pina Colada song by Rupert Holmes. Do you know that song?
2007-03-15 09:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude "I LOVE YOU" is a very strong word to say and by the looks of it she wants a relationship but not (one of those serious one's) but now you could find out what she wants in a relationship "Put her in the spot light" then if she coms threw then rell her who she is speaking to!
2007-03-15 09:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Shy Kaapie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes wacked. Let her find MR. right on yahoo personals. By the way............what are you doing on yahoo personals? you both need to find someone new.
2007-03-15 09:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by chazzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, she's just confused.. Let her be... I cared and still care about my ex.. But as soon as he proposed, I left him.. That's just way too serious, way too fast.. It's not you, this time, it's actually, HER.. She'll be single until she realizes what she really wants..
2007-03-15 09:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a lying trick-*** ho your dealing with! Get over her ......have some fun with her sluty-fake *** ...............by thinking of something perfect to come @ her with on ypersonals ...trap her, set her up & expose her for the skank she sounds like.....
or just end ALL contact
2007-03-15 09:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Redrum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you meant to do this. You should stop it right now because obviously SHE WASN'T THAT INTO YOU!
2007-03-15 09:28:49 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋