hey guys, please post ur opinion, i need to know,ans.
SO I work with this girl. (Really like her) she seemed interested in me too.
she gave me her number.
I call her after few days. she doesn’t ans. I call next day again. she was out w/ fam. we talk for 2,3 min, so i said, if ur busy i'll ttyl. she said ok..
next week we're fine. (we talk, look, smile)
Couple of days later i call her again, she doesn’t ans.
she calls back after few hours. (i was going to bed, but wasn't sleeping.)
she says. "someone called me?" it seems like she didn't save my number, even we talk on the phone before (kinda got me mad). so i said, “NO” but after a sec. i said “yes, i did, i was just kidding.” so we talk for 2,3min then she says, sorry to bother you, I’ll let you go back to bed.
Next day at work, she try to avoid eye contect, didn’t say “HI”. So she try to ignore me.
SO I DID THE SAME. she didn't talk to me, didn't smile at me, that's so unlike her “to me”
guys, girls. Please tell me, what to do? What’s going on?
2007-03-15 02:19:04 · 12 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she gave me her number, wanted to know when we were gonna go out, we once had plans too, but dind’t work out.
It’s eating me up, how we were cool but now we hardy look at each other, and we ignore each other.
Did I do something wrong?
2007-03-15 02:19:25 · update #1
Bro!! If she was really interested , she would have not done like that.. I think u really need to work hard to develop a liking in her.. or otherwise u r just wasting ur time.. giving no and talking on phone does'nt show she likes you.. You r indeed behaving as if infected by teenage infatuation.. Be a man dont behave like kids..
2007-03-15 02:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by gomsi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she gave you her number, it is obvious she has no intention of wanting to know you. It's called playing games. She doesn't answer a few times, then calls you late at night. That's called dangling a carrot just so you don't lose interest. She knows it's you. Else why would she say (someone called me & she called your number - she knows it's you. She's stringing you along. Probably doing it cos it bloats up her ego. And she's ignoring you now & acting unfriendly.
She has no regard for your feelings. If she calls you, don't answer. And go about your business. You're not obliged to talk to her. And if she does ask, say ' Was it you who called me?'
Let it go and find a girl who is genuinely interested in you, friendly & considerate.
2007-03-15 02:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably feels a little guilty for messing it up. yes...it was her fault... not urs. she realized that you knew that she didnt put ur number in her phone...thats what i think. but to really find out go up to her when its just u and her and no one can hear you and say "hey listen you have been avoiding eye contact with me and never say hi anymore...whats wrong"... if she says nothing. i personally would walk away from her and start going after new chicks to get my mind off of her lol but u might have deeper feelings. so if she does say nothing question her... think of all the posible things that would make her like this like my example..."is it cause u forgot to plug my number into ur phone?". but make sure if she is trying to leave you let her. cause that case would make her feel wiked insecure and as if she is being investigated. well...thats all the advise i can give...im looking forward to ur next question...whether its "how to ask the girl, i just got over a fight with, out" or "how to get over this girl"
good luck!
2007-03-15 02:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by jdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you did anything wrong. she is obviously trying to play games with you and your not there to play games. let her go, she isnt worth it if she keeps ignoring you and talking to you for only like 2 or 3 minutes.
2007-03-15 02:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you also that´s why she gave you her number, but there´s a big possibility that she´s already committed and just taking chances with you... She´s taken, but she likes you... :)
Do i make sense??? ;´/
2007-03-15 02:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by (sinner*saint) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u did anything wrong, i think u shud talk to her more and make eye contact. instead of calling, text her. how about being friendly first and then bf/gf?
2007-03-15 02:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by aless. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is definitely playin a power game..where she is tryin to show you who is in control...you dont need that!! She is not worth the problems!!
2007-03-15 02:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by mariajd3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it pass guy, go about your business if she wants you she will make the next move, if she dose its all up to you from there
2007-03-15 02:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chalk it up! Girlz are CRAZY! She's probably got her time/attn wrapped up in some OTHER guy.....& could give a ____ about you right now! live&learn:)
2007-03-15 02:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Redrum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing with you. Its all a game...and she winning by the sounds of it!
2007-03-15 02:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋