Well it basically goes, like this, the girl i like is like 2 doors down from me in college, only problem is that she has a bf in year 11(and she is first year uni) at school. We seem to connect really well, but Im not sure I should tell her the way i feel because if she does feel the same way then the bf will be heart broken and ive been in his situation, its not a great feeling...any suggestions???
2007-03-15 02:11:06 · 10 answers · asked by DJ T-RAY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do what you think is right...if you really like her, let her kno....i mean she may be your "significant other" in your life...but do what your heart thinks is right. I say go for it!!!!
Good Luck!!!
2007-03-15 02:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you answered your own question. The girl has a bf. If she was interested in you in the slightest way, she would break up with the guy, obviously she hasn't because she's probably into him and NOT you. A word of advice, girls like guys the same as guys like girls. This is so even when we are in other relationships, call it devine programming. Do yourself a favor and don't read too far between the lines, you could find yourself in a situation that you'd rather not be in. All is NOT fair in love and war, if you get what I'm saying. That's the way I see it anyway. It aint worth it dude, besides there is more than one woman with whom you may connect. Find another one.
"Now, put that in your lil' blunt and smoke it!"
2007-03-15 02:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uni years are crazy a lot of staff happen in peoples life.
Just let it flow and let her make her own decisions.
Don't worry personalities change maybe her boyfriend is going into the same thinking.
In just college not real life.
Life is way different after you finish College.
I'm 26 years old just finish college 2 years ago and believe me life is way way different.
2007-03-15 02:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by zingara76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let her know how u feel. dont feel bad for her bf. you dont need to "fix" other people or make them feel better. its not your job. worry about yourself. and if she does dump that guy for you...be happy about it. she def will be happy because she will realize that she didnt really like him that much. she obviously doesnt like him that much if she is dumping him for you.
but on the other hand theres the slight chance that she might not like you and you are going to jepordize your relationship by making it feel awkward unless she has a personality that can take that kind of stuff. if ur afraid of this... just wait it out until you are 100% positive that she wants you.
good luck!
2007-03-15 02:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by jdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is being flirtatious with you and being all "passionate" towards you, then i think you should just ask her how she is doing with HER boyfriend. and then lead it into you liking her and stuff. Keep liking her but when she tells you she loves her boyfriend, its time for you to move on because you don't want to get hurt or hurt her boyfriend. Obviously from my looks, she is starting to not wanting her bf and having some sidekick feeling for you.good luck:]
2007-03-15 02:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, classic scenario.
Just let her go. If you still feel the same way and she has broken up with the guy, then pursue it.
2007-03-15 02:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your own girl homie common theres thousands of girls in college you can get at a different one or just wait till they brake up
2007-03-15 02:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by chicken heads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her.
wait about a week after they break up and then make your move. don't leave him heartbroken, especially if ur going to be feeling empathetic,,
2007-03-15 02:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by aless. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone. she has a boyfriend. would you like it if someone was trying to get your girlfriend?
2007-03-15 02:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by jervett 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can either go for it, or wonder what it would be like from now on. you live life to please yourself and your partner, not anyone else.
2007-03-15 02:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋