if he is really good person and never talked with you than what to do should i talk or should i leave it there?
2007-03-15 02:07:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him , and see if you are judging him correctly.
2007-03-15 02:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are in college, probalby in your teens. This is the age of transition. One undergoes major transformation, biologically and mentally. Biological development are at their peaks. It's jsut like one developing wings and feeling the urge to take a flight and test them immediately. That is why people at this age are too much inclined towars the opposite sex.
Maybe, your sub-concious is aware of the ill effects of this immature flight. You are attracted towards the guy because your biology demands a test. But you don't like him. So that's done. You don't need to go for him. As time passes you will soon develop a harmony within yourself - with your biology and psychology. That would be the right time to strike for someone.
Till then, just follow your conscience.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-15 16:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just an infatuation, and will go away in time. To pursue a relation, you have to like the person. Talking to the person is the next step to judge/anticipate his/her likingness to you. But as I said, if you do not like this person, then do not waste your time in pursuing matter further. It is just an infatuation, and as much as you would like to deny it, it does happen to people of all ages/sexes at some point in their lives.
So take care, you will get over it...there are too many good men and women out there, you oughta find atleast one...
Good luck....
2007-03-15 09:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like them then don't waste your time, or his. You can't make yourself like someone. I have personally made this mistake before... he was a nice guy and I had no reason NOT to like him... but I didn't. None the less, I dated him for 9 months and ended up cheating on his because I was unhappy in the relationship. It is the only time I have ever cheated and I feel terrible to this day for wasting 9 months of his time.
There are LITERALLY billions of men on this planet... so don't settle for any less than what your heart desires.
2007-03-15 09:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by asoobee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at first glance i'd say,wats wrong in talking to him?But are u sure you "know" he is a good person?If so wat does he think about you.If he has an OK impression on you,try to talk to him and resolve your feelings,no one can do that for you.If you are a bad person in his eyes ,then just dont try to move things fast.
Either case I suggest talking to him,since it will clear your feelings towards him.(And stop you from feeling awkward.).
2007-03-15 09:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist of all your telling that your are not like that person to whom you are attracted. so all this thing are created in mind itself . its just power of attraction . it all nature rule . every one has some attraction power . if your are not liking someone then why waste own time on that person that you are not love just attracted only. if he is good then why you are hating them.
may be like your attraction on that person, your judgement also wrong for good & bad.
2007-03-15 10:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by sansar_ooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is impossible. On one hand u dislike the person and other hand u getting attracted. But how ? ? ?
You must wait n watch yrself.
2007-03-15 09:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the good time roll mamita life is short
2007-03-15 09:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by joe m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls dont look at him. Avoid him since you dont like him.
2007-03-19 02:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Raki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you should do.
MAKE UP YOUR F'ING MIND. I hate games like this.
2007-03-15 09:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by James L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋