Hey guys. About 3 weeks ago I started hanging out with my roomates girlfriends sister. When we hang out its usually me, my roomate, his GF, and then the sister. Well in these 3 weeks ive really fallen for the sister, she is exactly everything I want in a girl and I dont want to miss an oppurtunity with her. Im a really shy guy so when we first started hanging out we didnt really talk much or anything, but this last week and a half we have been talking more then before and actually have had some coversations. Anyway she went on vacation for a month and left 2 days ago which sucks, but she has sent me text messages since she has left just to chat and stuff. Im not sure if she is interested in me or not, but she is usually the first one to start a conversation with me and we usually always make eye contact when we do talk. What should I do since she is gone for a month? Should I just play it cool until she gets back? Should I text her more often? What steps should I take to get her?
2007-03-15 02:01:49 · 11 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should text a girl more often, since your a shy guy, she'll be surprised and most girls love to be surprised. If you text her than if she likes you she'll know that she has a chance. I say: chat with her over text and your feelings will grow stronger until she comes back. After a week or so that she's been back and a week after you guys have hung out, get closer to her. Invite her out alone. Ask your roomie for help. Tell him that you guys should all go out one day to a restaurant and tell him to "not be able to make it" with his gf so it'll be just you and her.
2007-03-15 02:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by aless. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe, she's probably into you too, let her text you first all the time. Maybe ONCE or twice during the month, send her a smily face or something if you HAVE to txt her. Just play it cool for the month and then when she gets back, after a few days, confide in her (I say via txt cause for us shy guys it's sooooo much easier), anyway, just let her know that while she was gone, you actually kinda sorta missed her, then just say you don't want to scare her off, that you missed her as a friend and see what she says.
2007-03-15 09:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by KidBao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Out of sight out of mind" If you want the girl run up the bill a little. Talk on the phone, send a text " wish you were here", and be creative to her responce! If everything goes well ask her out to dinner the first night she gets back so she has something to look forward to.
2007-03-15 09:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for now just play it cool keep texting her. ask her how is it going if she is having a good time? u know sound interested and concerned. when she comes back if she looks interested then give her a couple of hints. Good Luck
2007-03-15 09:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by juderick0120 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once She is Back , By a Rose , Ignor The Shy , & Tell Her That You Like Her
2007-03-15 09:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Son Of Zion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first text her seeing hows she doin then go in for the kill and ask her out
2007-03-15 09:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool, that would give you an excuse to go out, just the two of you to 'catch up', you know. :P
good luck mate.
2007-03-15 09:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry man, she's yours!
just keep in touch,
she'll be back, and when she comes back tell her,
just tell her, "text her" saying "when u come back, i gotta tell you something important.", so. she'll be intrested to know ..
anyways, help me out man, my situation is bad, as well.
thankx
2007-03-15 09:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text her and see what her reactions and then when she's back ask her out.
2007-03-15 09:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text her more often so she can feel that you love her
2007-03-15 09:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by djmtank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋