OK...let me just tell you what is going on in my love life. I met Trevor about three weeks ago...totally fell for him. But for some reason i kept doubting if i really did like him. I would look at him and just think "is it there? is there chemistry at all"...we would kiss and i wouldnt want to stop...i liked that part but i think it is more of his personality that turns me off...he is really dorky and has no sense of fashion but it didnt seem to bother me until my mom started saying it...i just dont know what to do...so i broke up with him and told him we should just be friends but now i miss him and i dont want to take him back unless i know for sure i do like him...can anyone tell me what i should do??? I really need help on this one..
2007-03-15 01:52:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't break up with somebody because your mom thinks he is dorky or has no sense of fashion. If you like him, you better go for it before somebody else does because then you will regret it.
2007-03-15 01:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by JUDY T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with this guy because your mother didn't like the way he dressed. That's the wrong reason. If YOU don't like the way he dresses, and YOU don't like his personality, that's a better reason for dropping him. Since his sense of fashion isn't going to change anytime soon, and his personality is going to stay the same, why bother with taking him back? You may miss him because you don't have a boyfriend now, but that's not a good enough reason to go back into a relationship with a boy you've only known for three weeks and whom you really weren't sure of in the first place. Move on, girlfriend.
2007-03-15 02:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you like him otherwise you wouldn't be giving the break up a second thought. Dumping him because he's "dorky and has no sense of fashion" was quite shallow particulary since you didn't do it untill your mother made a comment about him. Who's dating him, you or your mother? It doesn't matter what other people think if you like the guy. But it seems like you're only concerned about image. Could you not see how he dressed before you started making out with him?
2007-03-15 02:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with your boyfriend because your mom said he has no sense of fashion? Oh and he's also dorky. Boy, I can sure see how much better YOUR personality is. I think Trevor is better off without a shallow self-centered little brat like you anyway. That's why teenagers shouldn't date, because they're all stupid. GROW UP. I know you're a teenager and everything, but JESUS. YOU don't see how that is STUPID?
2007-03-15 02:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to remember is that it's your life and your love life, not your mom's, your friend's, or anyone elses. I broke up with a few guys in school because of what other people said about that, and they were good guys, just "dorky" or "too silly" or whatever they said about them. It was never right, and I missed them too. Luckily I was finally able to follow my own heart with the guy I have now been with for nearly 6 years. Follow your own thoughts :) Hope you become happy!
2007-03-15 02:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bethanie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time to think about what is ur type and whats not.... if he has what ur looking for in a guy then go for him again but if he doesnt intrest u then dont... dont just go 4 someone that is a good kisser have someone that is interesting and fun to be with thats what a good relationship needs... Think about his good and bad qualities. Be more sure of what u want in ur guy friends or boyfriends. I had the same problem the other night, but I had to fix it and I didnt know what to do at 1st, but yeah thats what u need to do... just be single for a while and think about it...
2007-03-15 02:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by spunky_luv_today 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any doubt if you like him then you probally DONT think about it, it only makes sense. If you really had it bad for him then you wouldent even be thinking about if you cared what anyone else thinks!!! ive had an similar expirience and what i found out is that is that i really liked the guy but not romantically, were best friends now, its great.
2007-03-15 01:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi pinkypin,
i donot know ur age but ur in teens. u like this guy. u love hih and now u want to become friend. pl note that introduction turns into friendship, among boys and girls it turns into love. u are in the same phase. tell him what u feel about him. give him a cheat. enjoy the life!
2007-03-15 02:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are feeling self concinous. If you LOVE someone, than nothing elese matters, Like clothing. I know as a girl what your mom says can be important, but remember that this is your boyfriend NOT hers!!! why is she commenting on something like this!!! obviously your mom needs a reality check!
2007-03-15 01:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone that you can mold into the "perfect boyfriend". That's not going to happen EVER! Yeah, maybe some girls will change themselves to attract and get boys attention but boys/men will hardly ever do this. What you see is what you end up with, no matter how much you try to change them or even if they try to change to suit you. That's just the way life works. Sorry to burst your bubble.
2007-03-15 01:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋