My boyfriend told me yesterday that after school we would go home together. But today right after gym class he 'disappered' all of a sudden. School was over and I stayed an extra 45 minutes after school waiting for him because I thought he would come back. Well, jokes on me-he didn't and in the end I left the school by myself! Later I found out he had ditched me for his friends!
So now I am really upset and I feel betrayed. HELP, what should I do in this situation?
2007-03-15 01:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you didn't appreciate the way he disrespected you and that for now on you will only wait 10 minutes "tops" for him and then you are going to leave. Let him know he needs to be true to his word. If he says he is going to do something, then he has to follow through. If he don't want to do that, then you deserve someone better. Good luck.
2007-03-15 01:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have to realize that most boys are not as much into romance and stuff as they are. It's more casual for us to hang out with our friends than to sit with a girl holding her hands and stuff. We just don't need to be around a girlfriend 24/7 the way some girls need and/or want us to. You need to understand that and stop expecting us to be there for you ALL THE TIME! It's just not cool.
2007-03-15 08:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like how men are sticking up for your bf lol.
Nah. there wasn't an excuse for what he did. The others are saying stuff like "boys aren't into romance as much as gurls"..but Romance isn't what you're on about. You're on about him saying he'll meet yew, then leaving with his friends instead. That's pretty pathetic of him. Yew should stand up for yourself and tell him that if he don't appologise and make it up to yew soon, then it'll be that time of the month pretty damn early this month.
2007-03-15 08:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by ` [ [ E l i e B e a n ] ] ; ; 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what guys are, cowards, they only think of themselves and are self centred. You don't won't someone who treats you like that. You deserve to be treated better than that, just ignore him when you see him. He is probably so ignorant that he will say he forgot. That's not good enough, just tell him you have something better to do.
2007-03-15 09:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand him up and then ditch him at the last moment. Then never have anything to do with him again. Once a louse always a louse.
2007-03-15 08:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that you are more committed into this relationship than he is. if he really had cared about your feelings he would have been there or told you that he had other plans.but he didnt. if i was you i would tell him how you feel and ask him if he really wants to be your bf.if you dont then this will happen agian and agian..dont be the one left looking like a fool.
2007-03-15 09:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a break...he probably forgot. Men are not like women, so you have to be understanding sometimes. Besides, if you try to control/crowd him...he will be gone for good.
2007-03-15 08:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by PDADDY16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that really made you mad.. & if possible. get him back.
2007-03-15 08:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋